We're Going There with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

Ep 115: Birthdays, Not Being Defined By Your Pain and Jabez's Prayer Request with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 10 Apr 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Are you walking through a difficult season of life? Do you ever feel like people are focused on what's wrong, instead of what's right? Have you been asking God to bless you with something? We see all of this in Jabez's story, and I'll be diving deep into scripture for today's podcast. In this episode, I talk about:

My birthday and reflecting on this last year

Jabez's story and the lessons we can learn from him

God answering prayers in the midst of our pain

Preparing for God's blessings

Nestled into two verses of scripture, in 1 Chronicles 4:9-10, we meet a man by the name of Jabez. He was a man named after pain, but he wasn't defined by it. In this podcast, I want to tell you more about the prayer that Jabez prayed and what we can learn from it. The people around Jabez discounted him but God never did, in fact, we see that Jabez was a man of honor who prepared for what he prayed for.

As you listen, I hope you remember that God is for you and wants to see you win! When we pray, God hears us and goes before us. God is with you in the good and the bad. Jabez had a God-done-did-it testimony and I'm praying the same for you and for me in this next season.

In the meantime, you can tag me @biancaolthoff, I'd love to learn about what God has done, is doing and will do for you!

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Jabez was more honorable than his brothers. His mother had named him Jabez, saying, “I gave birth to him in pain.” Jabez cried out to the God of Israel, “Oh, that you would bless me and enlarge my territory! Let your hand be with me and keep me from harm so that I will be free from pain.” And God granted his request. 1 Chronicles 4:9-10 NIV

WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 114: Bootcamp Recap, New Experiences and Online Christian Dating with Meagan Blanchette and Bianca Olthoff

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 03 Apr 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Did you listen to the dating bootcamp? Have you taken on the 30-day challenge? Are you online dating as a Christian? Dating can be hard work, but I've put together a helpful series to make it easier. After taking on the We're Going There dating challenge, Meagan is back with updates! In this podcast, we talk about:

Preparing to date well as a Christian

Looking for a relationship in the digital age

Lessons learned in the dating process

The dos and don'ts of dating apps

Meagan took my advice, did the homework and went on multiple dates! In this episode, we unpack Meagan's dating adventures and what she's learned. We talk about her new experiences and the confidence Meagan gained from dating online. I also share my perspective on how to sparkle as a single person and how to interact on dating apps.

As you listen, I hope this encourages you to see singleness and Christianity in a new way. (It's only weird if you're weird!) If you're single, take notes and remember that while dating isn't always easy, it is possible to have a great experience. And if you're taken, listen in and see what you can learn, it could help you to support your friends in their singleness. I love LOVE and want Christians to date well.

Sparkle for Jesus, believe in your God-given confidence and show the world what you've got to offer! Have you taken on the 30-day dating challenge yet? You can tag @biancaolthoff and @meaganherself we’d love to learn more about your experience.

Love you,

BRESOURCES/LINKS

Follow Meagan @meaganherself or Season of You Podcast

Dating Bootcamp Day 1

Dating Bootcamp Day 2

Dating Bootcamp Day 3

WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 113: God’s Ability and Power, Dreaming and Hoping Again with Bianca Olthoff

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 27 Mar 2023 00:00:00 PDT

What are you facing in life that is currently holding you back from hoping and dreaming? Are you feeling stuck or overwhelmed and you are not able to face reality? What is it going to take for you to realize that something good is possible for you?

I get it! Sometimes life can get overwhelming, and you might find yourself wondering why there are so many things against you. Life can get tough, but guess what, YOU are tough!

Something that I’ve learned over the years is that everything that happens, good or bad, is all part of God’s purpose in forming your dreams. The things that you go through are all part of your purpose. God is able to align all of your victories and failures to His dream for you. Allow God to use His unlimited resources and power to get you through every season of life.

Start hoping again now! Is it your time to have a praise party? Tag me @BiancaOlthoff and let’s party together, friends!

Love,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Now to him who is able to do immeasurably more than all we ask or imagine, according to his power that is at work within us, to him be glory in the church and in Christ Jesus throughout all generations, for ever and ever! Amen. Ephesians 3:20-21 NIV

WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 112: Roadmap to Dreaming Big, Reframing Your Pain and Living In Your God DNA with Havilah Cunnington

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 13 Mar 2023 00:00:00 PDT

Has disappointment ever set in because of something you had to lay down? Are you hesitant to dream big again? Are you finding it difficult to have hope for the future? If you have ever felt lost and wondered how to move forward in your journey after facing the loss of a dream, you’re not alone. If you are overwhelmed or afraid to hear the voice of God, this podcast is for you.

Havilah Cunnington is a podcaster, creative, teaching pastor, wife, mom, and my Bible twin. Today she shares practical handles to help others learn how to hear from God and do big things. At the tender age of 17 she realized she could hear the voice of God. Even though this was a new and scary experience, she decided to develop her ability to help others. We will also talk more about:

Dreaming about big things again

Attributes to a God dream

Markers that point us directly to the purpose of God

Reframing and redefining our pain

Havilah has learned to use her pain to help others on their journey. Take some time to allow yourself to dream again. Your pain is not wasted, give it a purpose. Start your roadmap to an exciting new adventure and DREAM BIG again!

Did you find out what your marker for hearing from God is - Hearer, Seer, Knower or Feeler? Tag @HavilahCunnington and @BiancaOlthoff and let us know what it is.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Havilah Cunnington: Website

WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 111: Leading As A Woman, Feminine Sensitivity, and Next Gen Leadership with Bianca Olthoff, Makayla Martinez and Valerie Ortega

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 06 Mar 2023 00:00:00 PST

Have you ever doubted your gifts and abilities because you are a woman? Has it ever been difficult to rise to a leadership position in your career, as an entrepreneur or as a woman in ministry? Makayla and Valerie are young women with careers and businesses who also volunteer in ministry positions at The Father’s House OC. In this episode we touch on:

Struggles using your gifts

Navigating overwhelm when serving

Rising up to your potential calling

I thought that being sensitive was a weakness that I had to repress. That, my friend, is a lie from the pit of hell. I want to encourage women to continue to use their gifts wherever God has placed them for their good and the benefit of the Kingdom of God. I will continue to share my story to help women go places that I never could.

Don’t be ashamed of how God fashioned you. Maybe you are not in a leadership role, but whatever you are doing, do it with excellence. Embrace your God given femininity and step into whatever season you are in with strength and confidence.

Let us know how you are owning your femininity by tagging @BiancaOlthoff @Makayylay and @Valortega Until next time, friends!

Love,

RESOURCES/LINKS

The 5AM Club: Own Your Morning. Elevate Your Life

Girl, Listen Podcast with Mak & Val

WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 110: Letting Go of Shame, Developing Faith, and God's Redemption with Ines Franklin

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 27 Feb 2023 00:00:00 PST

Have you dealt with the fallout of making a mistake? Do you wonder if God can provide true redemption? Can faith evolve over time? Ines Franklin talks about all of this in today's podcast. In this conversation, we talk about:

• Partnering with God when setting goals

• The true cost of making a bad decision

• Discovering personal convictions

• Redemption and evolving faith

Ines is a preacher, teacher, and author who I've known for a long time and her journey of faith is honest and full of grace. She tells me about the lessons she learned from divorce and the impact it had on her family. Ines also talks about her come-to-God moment and how she developed a love for the bible. We also talk about forgiveness and how God can change your life.

As you listen and learn about Ines, I hope you see that God's love is for everyone and that it's never too late to start over.

You are wonderfully and fearfully made, and God will meet you right where you are. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @inesfranklin, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Ines Franklin Book: Uncharted: Navigating Your Unique Journey of Faith

WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 109: Bringing The Bible To Life, Choosing To Remain and Creating A Lasting Legacy with Beth Moore

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 20 Feb 2023 00:00:00 PST

Do you want to better understand the Bible? Are you wondering if there's a way to share your personal experiences to help others? Have you ever thought about your legacy? While these are big topics, no one can tackle them with the same elegance as Beth Moore. In this conversation, we talk about:

• The impact of Beth's bible studies

• Sharing personal experiences and how it can help others

• The reality of being a woman in ministry

• Creating a lasting legacy and helping the next generation

Beth is a woman of great faith, and her work has had a profound impact on my life and ministry. She gives insight into her passion for teaching the Bible and how she brings it to life. Beth talks about the power of redeeming your story and how it can help others. We also unpack the realities of being a woman who leads in ministry and why it's important to show up for the next generation of Christian communicators.

As you listen, I hope you can learn from Beth's experience and know that God wants to use your story to help others. Whatever you been through can be redeemed and used for God's glory.

God has a unique plan for each of us and that's definitely something to be excited about. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @bethmoorelpm, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Beth Moore Book: All My Knotted-Up Life: A Memoir

Beth Moore's Website

WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 108: Dating Bootcamp Day 2 - Do You Sparkle?

info@accessmore.com — Tue, 14 Feb 2023 00:00:00 PST

Do you know where to meet people online? Have you created a dating profile? On a scale of 1 - 5 where does your dating profile score? If your answer is low, we’re here to help!

Has it been difficult for you to run into single people lately? Are you wondering where to go, what to do, or who to ask out? I want you to assess 2 things today:

Your community - Where are you hanging out? Who are your friends? What are your hobbies?

Your sparkle - Are you going out of your comfort zone to intentionally let others know that you are single like a pringle and ready to mingle?

Dating is like a taxicab light; if the light is on - you’re signaling that you are ready to date! But before you go out on a quality date, you need to spruce up your profile. That is what Meagan Blanchette and I will be focusing on today. Listen in to learn more on how to create a dazzling dating profile. Tag me @BiancaOlthoff and let me know how your profile is shaping up.

Remember, dating is a season that we move through. The intention is to meet the person who you will hopefully spend the rest of your life with.

Love,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Follow Meagan Blanchette’s Dating Journey - @meaganherself, Meagan’s Website or Season of You Podcast

FREE Love Is Resource

TFHOC: How To Set Boundaries / Love Lines

TFHOC: How To Date || Bianca Olthoff

How to Have Your Life Not Suck: Becoming Today Who You Want to Be Tomorrow

WGT email:podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email:?bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 107: Dating Bootcamp Day 1 - Getting Dating Right

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 13 Feb 2023 00:00:00 PST

Have you gone through some type of trauma in past relationships and are hesitant to put yourself out there again? Are you experiencing frustration with your dating life? What if I told you that I want to challenge you to go on a date this month.

We all know that dating can be risky and uncomfortable but if we're not willing to take a risk there will be no reward. So today, I enlisted the help of Meagan Blanchette, a courageous listener who has volunteered herself as “tribute” to take a 30-day dating challenge.

In this first episode of our Dating Bootcamp podcast series, we will be challenging you to:

Give yourself permission to go dating again

Not get tangled in “Situationships”

Get ready to test the waters again

Let’s get ready for the dating journey! But first, I want you to dig deep and answer the following questions honestly:

Am I ready to date?

Why do I want to date now?

What is my list of 50 qualities I look for on a date? 25? 10?

What are my 5 non-negotiables?

Of the 5 non-negotiables, which ones am I holding loosely?

4. Do I know the risk of love and am I willing to take a risk for the reward?

5. What are my sexual, financial, and spiritual boundaries?

6. What information am I sharing too much of?

7. What are my boundaries regarding time?

This list might seem like a lot but trust me it’s not. You are creating a baseline, a guideline, a roadmap to help you get more comfortable with who you really are and be confident next time you go out on a date.

I’m super passionate about this topic because I did dating wrong. That’s why I want you, your friend, and every single-ready-to-mingle person out there to know that dating can be both pure AND fun when you start out right.

I LOVE Love and I want you to succeed in Love! If you answered any or all of the above questions, share them with me @BiancaOlthoff. Join us tomorrow for Day 2 of the bootcamp!

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Follow Meagan Blanchette’s Dating Journey - @meaganherself, Meagan’s website - or Season of You Podcast

How to Have Your Life Not Suck: Becoming Today Who You Want to Be Tomorrow

FREE Love Is Resource

Ben Stuart: Single, Dating, Engaged, Married: Navigating Life and Love in the Modern Age

TFHOC: The Sex Talk || Pastor Bianca Olthoff

TFHOC: Who's In Your Bed // Married Sex // Bianca Olthoff

WGT email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 106: Godly Glam, Self-Care, and The Clean Girl Aesthetic with Bianca Olthoff

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 06 Feb 2023 00:00:00 PST

Are you embracing the clean girl aesthetic? Is there an outfit that makes you feel your most confident? Do you have a self-care regiment? I'll be unpacking all of this today and explaining why taking care of yourself should be a priority. In this episode, I talk about:

· The basics of self-care

· Maintaining a personal standard

· How taking care of yourself is biblical

· Explaining vanity vs maintenance and knowing the difference

The church doesn't always like to have conversations about beauty and personal care because it can come across as pursuing vanity. Well, I'm flipping that narrative in this podcast, I want to let you know that having basic self-care standards is not bad but actually biblical. Being presentable, smelling good, and showing up for yourself shows others that you want to be taken seriously and treated with respect.

As you listen, I hope you meet yourself with compassion and remember that it's okay to take care of yourself emotionally, mentally, physically, and spiritually. If you love a full-face of make-up and hair extensions, this podcast is for you. If you love the TikTok clean girl aesthetic, this podcast is for you. If you prefer no make-up and yoga pants, this podcast is for you.

I love a colorful co-ord and believe that the longer the lash, the better! I hope this podcast encourages you to embrace your individuality with style and grace, in every place. You can tag me @biancaolthoff, I'd love to learn more about your personal style.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

To receive the Free Ruth Resource, email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 105: Building a Blended Family, Leading with Love and The Delicate Dance of Step-Parenting with Peter & Heather Stow and Bianca Olthoff

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 30 Jan 2023 00:00:00 PST

Are you part of a blended family? Do you know someone who is navigating step-parenting? Have you wondered how non-traditional families make it work? Well, it's something I know all too well and I'm sharing my own experiences in today's podcast. In this episode, I talk about:

• Navigating step-parenting

• The importance of learning from other families

• Establishing boundaries and roles at home

• The realities of being part of a blended family

I was recently invited to the No Greater Joy Podcast hosted by my friends Peter and Heather Stow to discuss my experience with step-parenting. I'm grateful for the space they created for me to share my story and to increase the visibility of blended families in the church. Throughout the conversation, you'll learn more about how I adjusted to life as a S’Mom (aka Step-Mom). I talk about the lessons I learned and also the emotional impact of step-parenting.

As you listen, I hope you gain a new perspective on blended families and how they are part of God's plan. When I married Matt, I also gained Parker and Ryen and they've been a beautiful addition to my life. It hasn't always been easy, but the Olthoff household is one full of love and God's grace.

I went from being single to becoming a step-parent REAL quick and it changed my life forever. So, whether you're a step-parent or looking for ways to support a friend or family member who is part of a blended family, I hope this podcast encourages you. You can tag us @biancaolthoff, @peterstow and @heatherstow, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

No Greater Joy Podcast with Peter & Heather Stow

Stow Ministries

WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 104: The Reality of Incarceration, Redeeming Your Story and Resilient Faith with Fox and Rob Richardson

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 23 Jan 2023 00:00:00 PST

Have you ever made a bad decision and regretted it? Are you wondering if there's a way to redeem your story? Do you want to use your experiences to advocate for change? Fox and Rob Richardson speak candidly and with grace about all of this in today's podcast. In this conversation, we talk about:

• How difficult circumstances can lead to bad decisions

• The realty for men and women who are incarcerated in the U.S.

• Having resilient faith in hard times

• The importance of prison ministry

Fox and Rob's story is one wrapped in grace and full of redemption. They speak openly about mistakes that they made which led to both ending up in prison. Fox talks about how her faith got her through her sentence and how she fought for her husband's release. Rob details the reality of long-term incarceration and talks about the importance of supporting people who are serving a prison sentence.

As you listen, I hope you remember that God's grace is sufficient and that in our weakness the Lord is made strong. Whether you're hoping to rebuild your life after incarceration or looking for ways to support people in prison, there's something for everyone in this podcast.

We all make mistakes, and we are not defined by our past. There's a God that loves you and wants to turn your test into a testimony. You can tag us @BiancaOlthoff and @foxandrob, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Book by Fox & Rob Richardson: Time, The Untold Story of the Love That Held Us Together When Incarceration Kept Us Apart

Book by Gary Smalley: Making Love Last Forever

WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 103: The Power of Mindset, Building Healthy Thought Patterns, and Changing Your Life with YET with Jasmine Star

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 16 Jan 2023 00:00:00 PST

Is your mind stuck in replay telling you the same negative thoughts? Are you ready to become aware of what you tell yourself and improve your mindset? Then you’re in for a treat! Today I get to have a life-giving conversation with adoptive mom, entrepreneur, business owner, and my twin sister Jasmine Star on mindset shift.

In my eyes Jasmine has always been strong-willed, a driver, and prone to success. She shares with us how she learned about fixed and growth mindset and how it has helped her become aware of the things she was repeating to herself. Her breakthrough came after having a shift from a fixed to a growth mindset. Jasmine learned to empower her brain and apply a different mindset to her situations.

There are three main categories of self-doubt that a fixed mindset can keep you stuck in:

1. Over Planner

2. Treading Water

3. Destination Obsessed

Friends let’s choose to learn from our challenges and write a different story. Get rid of stinking thinking by choosing the hard of change instead of the hard of stasis.

I love that I get to have these conversations and share them with you! Tag me @BiancaOlthoff and @JasmineStar and let us know how you are writing a different story today.

Love you friends!

RESOURCES/LINKS

Jasmine Star Website

B's favorite podcast episodes:

From Broke to Billionaire

Three Reasons Why People Get Stuck

Book resources:

Mindset: The New Psychology of Success by Carol Dweck

Discipline Is Destiny: The Power of Self-Control by Ryan Holiday

WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.

Ep 102: Evaluate Life, Rediscover Who You Are, and Become Your Best Self with Bianca Olthoff

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 09 Jan 2023 00:00:00 PST

What are you doing to become the best version of yourself? Are you willing to put in the work that no one else will? I want to take you on a journey and help you discover who you can be.

We all go through setbacks and failures that might push us into quitting. But keep in mind that they are part of the learning process. Challenge yourself today and take some time to rediscover who do you want to be in life by asking yourself these questions:

1. What am I happy with?

2. What do I want to do?

3. What makes me unhappy?

4. How do I view setbacks?

5. Am I willing to do the work? I know you can do this! And I’m cheering you on from the sidelines. Tag me @BiancaOlthoff I’m excited to see who you want to be in 2023.

Love you friends!

RESOURCES/LINKS

WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

BONUS Ep 101: Reflections, Casting Vision, and A Strong New Beginning for the New Year

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 02 Jan 2023 00:00:00 PST

Are you having a rocky start to your year? Does it seem like you are starting out on a crazy train? How about we start this season with a positive attitude? Having a word to reflect on throughout the year has always been pivotal in my life and I hope it is helpful to you as well. We all have good intentions when we set resolutions. But let's be honest friends, even though we started out strong, less than half of us made it to the 6-month mark.

Focusing on ONE word during the entire year can be very powerful. Not only will you be able to stay focused, but you will also have direction on who you want to be and what you want to step into. Pause, think, and create a list to hone into your word. And remember, don't just be interested in it, be committed to it.

Set some time by yourself, with a friend, or your date to go through these steps. I can't wait for you to tag me at @BiancaOlthoff and share what your word for this year is.

Love you friends!

RESOURCES/LINKS

Do You Need An Epiphany? // Enough // Matt Olthoff

WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 100: Setting Clear Boundaries, Communicating Our Needs To Others and A Million Little Funerals with Lysa TerKeurst

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 14 Nov 2022 00:00:00 PST

Do you find it hard to establish boundaries? Are you sensitive about and do you struggle to have difficult conversations? Is there a part of your life that you're currently grieving? Lysa TerKeurst is an author and speaker who is tackling all these topics in her newest book. In this conversation, we cover:

· Defining boundaries and why we need them

· How boundaries can improve your relationships

· Tackling tough conversations and how it can provide clarity

· Grieving the relationships and seasons of life that come to an end

Lysa's voice is one I trust and respect, especially when it comes to discussing spiritual and emotional well-being. She shares personal experiences and walks us through her process of re-establishing boundaries. Lysa gives insight into how boundaries are a biblical principle and how honoring our boundaries helps us honor others too. We also talk about acknowledging what didn't work out and grieving those things with little funerals. (Liiisten, this sounds weird but it's a game-changer!) If like me, you have a big heart and lots of feelings, I hope this episode helps you as much as it helped me. Whether you're navigating boundaries in your professional or personal life, there's something for everyone in this episode. Sometimes things don't turn out how we planned, and it's okay to grieve what you lost. Establishing boundaries as you heal can improve your relationships and help you to see all the good that's yet to come. You can tag us @BiancaOlthoff and @LysaTerKeurst, we'd love to learn more about how this episode spoke to you.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Check out Lysa’s new book: Good Boundaries and Goodbyes

WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 99: Co-Leading As A Couple, Redefining Leadership In The Church and Lessons We've Learned with Matt and Bianca Olthoff

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 07 Nov 2022 00:00:00 PST

Have you ever wondered what it's like to co-lead with family? Are you navigating a new partnership of some kind? Leadership is having influence over something, whether it's personal or professional. Matt Olthoff, a.k.a. my husband, and I co-lead The Father's House OC together. We are sharing our experiences and the lessons learned on:

• Planting a church

• Working together in partnership

• What our leadership looks like

• Defining individual responsibility

Matt's heart for people makes him a great leader. His leadership has impacted me, in marriage and in building a church. We define what leadership is and how we're working together to redefine co-leadership in ministry as a couple. Creating equal opportunity for men and women in ministry is something we care about deeply. Matt empowers me to be a better leader and I am grateful for the journey we've been on. One thing we know for sure is that we are better together.

My hope is that as you listen, you'll be able to hear a different perspective on co-leadership. Whether you're learning how to navigate working with people at your job or looking for ways to communicate better in your relationships, there's something for everyone in this podcast. God made us individually and with purpose and we all bring something different to the table. When we collaborate with others in the community, I believe that we can work at our best. You can tag us @BiancaOlthoff and @MattOlthoff, we'd love to know how this episode spoke to you.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 98: Gossip In The Church, The Power Of Our Words and Choosing Encouragement Over Speculation with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 31 Oct 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Have you ever been hurt by someone gossiping about you? Are you guilty of talking about someone behind their back? Gossip is running rampant in today's world, both online and in person and we're going to tackle it in this episode. In this episode, I will:

• Define gossip and different types of gossipers

• Explain why we shouldn't gossip, from a biblical perspective

• Why people may feel the need to gossip

• How we can actively fight against gossip culture Gossip has become a part of everyday life, whether defined as a water cooler moment with colleagues in the office or chatting about someone else's business with friends.

It can also be found online when scrolling through tabloids and social media. While it might seem innocent, it can be hurtful, lead to wild assumptions and cause division in relationships. I'll explain what gossip is and the damage it can cause. I’ll also cover what the Bible says about gossip as well as how gossip is showing up in the [capital C] Church. My heart and my hope is that as you listen, you'll reflect on this topic and have the courage to call out gossip when you see it in real time. Let's instead be generous with encouragement, it goes much further and will have a positive impact on someone's life. You can tag me @biancaolthoff, I'd love to know how this episode spoke to you!

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Keeping It G // Gossip + Guile // Issues We Don’t Talk About // Bianca Olthoff

WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 97: God's True Nature, Modern Christianity and Embracing the Anointing on Your Life with Lisa Bevere

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 24 Oct 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Do you know God's true nature? Ever wondered how God sees you? Is there a God calling on your life? Lisa Bevere is joining me on the podcast to unpack all these topics. We dive deep into:

• God's true nature

• The power of your YES to God

• Why it's important to speak the truth in love

• Being anointed by God and working in partnership with Him

Lisa is an author, a speaker, and a leader who has spent decades encouraging and empowering people to walk in their purpose. During our conversation, Lisa shares her thoughts on modern Christianity and the importance of knowing the Word of God. She speaks candidly about being anointed by God and working with Him on purpose and for His purpose. Lisa has her ear to the ground and isn't afraid to give us a reality check. Something I love about Lisa's writing and perspective is that it always speaks to God's true nature. It's the reminder that God made each of us uniquely and cultivated a specific purpose for each of our lives.

My heart and my hope is that as you listen, you’ll remember that you are a child of God and that you are significant. There’s an assignment on this earth that only you can fulfil. Tag us @biancaolthoff and @LisaBevere, we’d love to see what you're called to and what embracing God's plan looks like for you.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Lisa Bevere’s Devotional - Fiercely Loved: God's Wild Thoughts about You

Lisa Bevere’s Books

WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 96: Letting Go of Control, Not Being Attached to Outcomes and The Power of Boundaries with Sharon Hodde Miller

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 17 Oct 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Are you a self-professed control freak? Does the thought of letting someone else take the lead stresses you out? Is there a strong inner critic that you constantly battle with? Sharon Hodde Miller is an author and a co-pastor alongside her husband. She has wrestled with control in the past and will share with us ways we can tackle our own need for control in an upfront but loving way. In this conversation, we talk about:

• Defining control and our desire to be in control

• Letting go of the need to control everything

• The struggle of the inner critic

• The power of our God-given agency

Sharon shares her experiences in hopes of helping others navigate their relationship with control. She explains that there is power in letting go of control and learning to not be attached to outcomes. We also discuss establishing boundaries and embracing our God-given agency.

As you listen, I hope you'll meet yourself with kindness and take a look at your relationship with control. While we can't control everything - we can be certain of one thing... God is perfect and makes no mistakes. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @sharonhmiller, we'd love to hear how this podcast spoke to you!

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Sharon Hodde Miller’s Book: The Cost of Control: Why We Crave It, the Anxiety It Gives Us, and the Real Power God Promises

WGT Email: podcast@inthenameoflove.org

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 95: Embracing Change, Tapping Into Your Creativity and Making The Most of Your Single Season with DOE

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 10 Oct 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Do you feel stuck through obligation and not obedience? Are you looking for ways to be more creative? Does it sometimes feel like no one understands your perspective? DOE is a singer-songwriter with a pastor's heart and her unique voice is what makes her unforgettable. In this conversation, we talk about:

• Growing up in ministry and pursuing God's calling

• Obligation vs obedience

• Trusting God's character and the desires He placed in your heart

• Creativity in all its forms

• Making the most of your time while being single

DOE is known for her unique voice and beautiful melodies, but she's also accomplished outside of her career in music. She's got three degrees, worked as a youth pastor and even has an Uber license! DOE speaks about a season of transition and stepping out as a solo artist. After spending much of her life in ministry with her family, she wanted to explore new things.

What I love about DOE's story is that she embraced her individuality and knew that her differences were the very things God could use for His glory. I hope that as you listen, you'll reflect on the things you really want to do and then have the courage to boldly pursue them. Because where God guides, He provides! You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @doejonesmusic, we'd love to learn about your God dream and the things that make you... YOU!

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Doe Jones Music

Podcast music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 94: The Formula For Prayer, Understanding God’s Character and Counting Your Blessings with Chad Veach

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 03 Oct 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Have you ever wondered if there’s a correct way to pray? Do you sometimes wish there was a cheat sheet for prayer? Are you waiting for God to answer a specific prayer? Chad Veach is the faith-filled, fun-loving pastor of ZOE Church LA who can speak to all thing’s prayer. In this conversation, we talk about:

• Understanding what prayer is and why we should pray

• The ways God answers prayer

• How prayer changes us individually

• Embracing the blessings in our lives

Chad is a church leader, author and friend who has a refreshing perspective on prayer that’s been cultivated through personal experience. During this episode, Chad lays out the formula for how to pray and reminds us why we should. He also speaks about the ways in which God responds to our prayers. Something I loved about this conversation was how practical it was - Chad shares ways in which we can be intentional with prayer in our daily lives.

My heart and my hope is that as you listen, you’ll remember that prayer is simply communication with God. Whether it’s through talking, journaling or walking, prayer changes us and makes us better. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @chadveach, we'd love to see what prayer looks like in your life.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Chad Veach Book - Worried about Everything Because I Pray about Nothing: How to Live with Peace and Purpose Instead of Stress and Burnout

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 93: Alcohol Addiction In The Church, Overcoming Shame and Hope Found In Recovery with Irene Rollins

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 26 Sep 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Why don't we talk about alcoholism in the church? Is there a way to overcome the shame we feel from addiction? Is there really a chance for wholeness and recovery? Irene Rollins is a pastor-turned-author who is shedding light on these topics and breaking the stigma around the church and its relationship with addiction issues. In this episode, I'm chatting with Irene about:

• Dealing with alcoholism in the church

• Identifying addiction issues and active recovery

• Having a safe community to heal with

• Supporting people impacted by addiction

Irene is in recovery from an alcohol addiction and has been sober for a number of years. She talks openly about how unresolved trauma, insecurity and a hard season of life led to a dependence on alcohol. During our conversation, Irene shares her story and how her issues with alcohol impacted her personal and professional life.

This conversation is shared with the intention of creating a dialogue around how the church deals with addiction issues. As you listen, I hope you'll see that help is available to those who need it and that recovery is possible with the right resources and support. So, whether you're looking for healing or trying to better understand how you can support someone through addiction, this episode is for you. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @irenerollins, we'd love to find out how this podcast spoke to you.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Irene Rollins Book - Reframe Your Shame: Experience Freedom from What Holds You Back

Treatment / Therapy Programs:

The Meadows Texas

Celebrate Recovery

Alcoholics Anonymous

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 92: The American Dream, Representing Mexican Food in Culture and The Beauty of a Family Business with Bricia Lopez

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 19 Sep 2022 00:00:00 PDT

What does the American Dream look like? How does a family build a legacy? Is there a way to fulfill the desires God put in your heart? Bricia Lopez can speak to all of this as a chef, author and entrepreneur who is bringing a taste of Mexico to mainstream food culture. In this episode, I'm chatting with Bricia about:

· Her family and their American Dream

· Growing up in Mexico and immigrating to the U.S.

· Helping to establish a family business and building a legacy

· Bringing Mexican culture into the U.S. and attaining mainstream accolade

As we celebrate Hispanic Heritage Month on the podcast, I'm exploring the concept and realities of the American Dream with Bricia. During our conversation, Bricia shares the story of her family and how they established a successful Oaxacan restaurant in Los Angeles. She speaks openly about the challenges they faced along the way as well as the huge success they've attained for their authenticity. Something that's special about Bricia's perspective is that she continues to build her family's legacy alongside her siblings. My heart and my hope is that as you listen, you'll learn about a new culture and that you'd give yourself permission to dream. Ideating is a free gift given to us and if God's put a desire in your heart, chances are you're the person to see it through to completion. Below you'll find one of Bricia's favorite recipes, so I'd love for you to recreate it and discover a tasty new Mexican dish. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @bricialopez, we'd love to see what food and dreams you cook up after this episode.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Oaxaca: Home Cooking from the Heart of Mexico

Salsa Borracha Recipe

Ingredients

· 1 pound tomatillos, husked and rinsed

· 6 morita chiles (you may substitute with ¼ ounce chipotle chiles), destemmed

· 2 cloves garlic, peeled

· 2 tablespoons apple cider vinegar

· 2 tablespoons mezcal

· 2 bay leaves

· Sea salt

Instructions

· Preheat your oven’s broiler to its highest setting

· Place the tomatillos on a baking sheet with a rim, on your broiler’s highest rack, and broil for 20 minutes, mixing them around at the 10-minute mark to make sure all of the tomatillos are cooking evenly. The tomatillos should be lightly charred and change color to a light yellow. Set aside.

· Meanwhile, in a comal or cast-iron skillet over medium heat, toast the dried chiles and garlic until slightly charred and fragrant. This should take about 30 seconds for the chiles and about 5 minutes for the garlic.

· Bring about a cup of water to a boil. Pour the boiling water into a bowl, add the toasted chiles, let them sit for about 20 minutes or until they are soft and tender. Drain and set aside.

· In a blender, combine the reserved tomatillos, chiles, and garlic with the apple cider vinegar, mezcal, 2 tablespoons of water, and the bay leaves. Blend until smooth. Taste for salt and serve.

· This salsa will stay fresh in the refrigerator for a week.

Pollo Enchipotlado or Chicken in a Creamy Chipotle Sauce Recipe

Ingredients

· 1 (2 pound) whole chicken, butchered into 8 pieces

· Sea salt

· Black peppercorns, freshly ground

· 2 tablespoons Dijon mustard

· 5 ¼ cups chopped tomatoes

· ½ small white onion, chopped

· 4 cloves garlic, peeled

· 1 tablespoon olive oil

· 1 tablespoon butter

· 3 whole chipotles in adobo, plus 2 tablespoons adobo...

Ep 91: Defining Truth, Living By Our Own Means and Being Aligned with God’s Word with Jada Edwards

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 12 Sep 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Are you in a season of discovering God’s plan for your life? Have you heard the term ‘living by my truth’ in mainstream media or on social media? Is the church struggling to clearly define God’s will? Jada Edwards is a straight-shooting, truth-telling, speaker, Bible teacher and author. She can speak to defining truth from a personal and biblical standpoint. In this conversation, we talk about:

• Defining truth in culture and on social media

• The danger of using the phrase ‘living my truth’

• How to define truth as a Christian and understanding God’s will

• The importance of being led by the Holy Spirit

Jada’s leadership and ministry have been a blessing to me and The Father’s House OC. She has her ear to the ground and communicates in an honest, direct and loving manner. Jada shares her thoughts on truth in culture and in the church. Throughout this podcast, Jada provides context and shares personal experiences in defining truth.

As you listen, I hope you’ll begin to see what God’s truth is for your life. Jada is a friend and I trust that her thought leadership will encourage you to lean into what God wants for you. While it might not always be easy, there is peace and joy in fulfilling the call on your life friend! You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @jada_edwards on social media. We’d love to know how this conversation has impacted you.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Books by Jada Edwards

The Jada Edwards Podcast

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 90: Overcoming Lust in the Digital Age, Rebuilding Trust in Romantic Relationships and Redemption with Manda Carpenter and Matt Droguett

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 05 Sep 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Have you ever grappled with lustful thoughts or actions? Do you struggle with intimacy and romantic connections? Are you wondering if there is redemption for you? Manda Carpenter and Matt Droguett have both walked through these exact things. While their experiences are different, they both found wholeness through faith (and therapy). In this conversation, we talk about:

• Male and female perspectives of struggling with lust and porn

• The impact lust has on romantic relationships and expectations

• Healing found through honest conversations and asking for help

• Struggles and reality of being a Christian in today’s world

Manda walked through a season of seeking external validation which led to infidelity in her marriage. She talks openly about the web of guilt and shame that kept her entangled. Manda shares how one honest conversation, led to healing and restoration in her marriage. Matt spent a number of years silently struggling with a desire to look at explicit content. After breaking the cycle, he began to live in wholeness and now helps others do the same.

This conversation and space were created to shed light on a topic that so many struggle with. As you listen, I hope you’ll feel less alone or better equipped to help someone you know who is going through this. Remember that there’s freedom and grace found in the name of Jesus. You can tag us @biancaolthoff, @mandacarpenter and @mattdroguett on social media. We’d love to hear how this episode spoke to you.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Manda Carpenter’s book: Soul Care to Save Your Life

Matt Droguett’s course: Ditch Porn and Reclaim Your Life & Use Code: TFHOC

Women’s Conference at TFHOC – Breathe

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

BONUS Ep 89: What Were You Thinking with Bianca Olthoff

info@accessmore.com — Sun, 14 Aug 2022 22:00:00 PDT

Have you ever had a moment where instead of believing the best, you assume the worst? In today’s episode I share another bonus teaching on why every thought that comes to your mind matters.

We can train our minds with the wrong things, or we can train our minds with the Truth. What goes into our minds will come out in our life. To change your mind and change your life, you need to rewrite and retrain your brain with the Truth of the Word of God. Meditate on the Word by:

1. Seeking out the Truth of God

2. Writing out the Truth of God

3. Declaring the Truth of God

4. Believing the Truth of God

Be transformed by renewing your mind with the power of the Truth of God's Word. I hope this bonus episode has helped you in some way. You can tag me @biancaolthoff and let me know truth of the Word of God is helping you to demolish strongholds.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

The Father’s House Orange County

What Were You Thinking // Changing Your Brain // Mind Games // Bianca Olthoff

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”BONUS Ep 89: What Were You Thinking with Bianca Olthoff

BONUS Ep 88: Your Tool For Survival with Bianca Olthoff

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 08 Aug 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Has your amygdala ever waged war with your thoughts? Do you need to learn how to take your thoughts captive in a chokehold? Friends, I’m sharing a bonus episode today from a teaching on the greatest weapon at our disposal. That weapon is: PRAYER!

How do you overcome and win the battle in your brain? You take captive every thought and make it obedient to God. Neurotheology teaches us that:

· Prayer changes your brain.

· Prayer encourages neuroplasticity and our brain gets better.

· Prayer affects our behavior.

Don't let negative thoughts harm your brain. Allow positive thoughts to heal your brain. Come boldly before the throne of God and touch His hearth through prayer. I hope this bonus episode has helped you in some way. You can tag me @biancaolthoff and let me know how you are waging war against your negative thoughts.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

The Father’s House Orange County

Your Tool for Survival // The Brain, Anxiety, and Prayer // Mind Games // Bianca Olthoff

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 87: Being A Power Couple, Walking By Faith, Christianity In Hollywood and Working In Partnership with Alexa and Carlos PenaVega

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 18 Jul 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Have you ever wondered what it's like to be part of a power couple in Hollywood? Do you struggle to walk by faith and not by sight? Alexa and Carlos PenaVega can speak to both of those experiences. They have been married for several years and consciously make faith-filled decisions. In this episode, I'm talking to the PenaVega’s about:

- Being a Christian in Hollywood

- Family values and prioritizing their marriage

- Working together in partnership

- How they came up with their last name PenaVega

The couple grew up in the public eye. Alexa found fame from her role in Spy Kids, while Carlos joined the Big Time Rush franchise. During our conversation, Alexa and Carlos share the genesis of their love story and how they have built a Godly relationship. They speak openly about how they prioritize their family life and the sacrifices they've made. While it may seem untraditional to some, the PenaVega’s offer a refreshing perspective on what real love and real faith look like.

If you know me, you know that I love LOVE. So, whether you're single or in a committed relationship, my hope is that as you listen you'll be reminded that love is one of the greatest gifts that God has given us. You can tag us @biancaolthoff, @vegaalexa and @therealcarlospena, let us know what you loved and you could win a copy of their new book!

Love you, B

RESOURCES/LINKS

Book: What If Love Is The Point? Living for Jesus in a Self-Consumed World

Heaven In Your Home Podcast (mentioned by Alexa)

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 86: Accepting Where You Are, Breaking Generational Cycles and Embracing Faith with Zachary Levi

info@accessmore.com — Sun, 10 Jul 2022 22:00:00 PDT

Are you looking for ways to deal with your mental and emotional health? Have you ever considered going to therapy? Confronting inner struggles may sound overwhelming but it can change your life for the better. In this episode, I'm talking with actor turned author, Zachary Levi about

· Therapy and the positive impact it's had on his personal and professional life

· Why it's important to deal with generational cycles

· Breaking stigmas surrounding vulnerability

Known for his leading roles in American Underdog and DC superhero movie Shazam, Zachary has gained mainstream popularity and has a huge following. During our conversation, Zachary shares his story in hopes that it will help others. We discuss the difficulty he had in his childhood and the impact of generational trauma. Something profound about Zachary's experience is the healing that took place when he went to therapy and got the help that he needed. Zachary also shares his journey of faith and how God met him where he was in his moment of need.

As you listen, I hope you gain the courage and bravery of a superhero and remember that there's a God who loves you as you are. You can tag us @biancaolthoff and @zacharylevi on social media, we'd love to find out what you've learned from this episode.

Love you,

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 85: The New Age Movement, Spiritual Fluidity, Counterfeit Ideology and Knowing The Voice Of God with Stephanie Ike

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 04 Jul 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Is the idea of manifesting your own future appealing to you? Are you wondering if horoscopes, crystals, burning sage and similar practices can help you achieve more in life? Today I'm chatting with author, pastor and talk show host, Stephanie Ike. Stephanie speaks frankly and concisely about popular new age practices and the importance of knowing the voice of God. Some of the topics we will discuss are:

· Clarity on counterfeit ideology

· The truth about spiritual fluidity

· Discerning right from wrong in today's culture

As you settle into this conversation, I encourage you to listen with open ears and an open heart. There is so much more to this topic and my hope is that this conversation helps you in some way.

I'd love to hear from you and find out what you took away from this episode. Don't forget to tag us on social media @BiancaOlthoff and @StephanieIke.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

The Same Room

Hearing The Voice of God - Stephanie Ike & Dante Bowe

Friends, New Age ideology might be new or confusing. I've curated four articles to breakdown, explain, or clarify what New Age ideology is and why it is contrary to Biblical belief. XO

Articles:

· Understanding New Age

· Do We FIght With Oprah and New Age

· Should Christians Reject New Ageism?

· Defending the Faith: Apologetics and New Age

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 84: Waiting Seasons, Validating Our Experiences, Active Participation and Moving Away From Assumptions with Barb Hill

info@accessmore.com — Sun, 26 Jun 2022 22:00:00 PDT

Are you waiting for something? Have you wondered if your dreams will ever come to pass? Waiting seasons can feel long and tedious but we're offering a fresh take in this episode. In this conversation, I'm talking with therapist and author, Barb Hill about:

· Transformation that takes place in the wait

· Validating our experiences, past and present

· How we can become active participants in our lives

Barb is a friend and we've walked through waiting seasons together; she's got a lot of insight on this topic and has beautifully unpacked it in this podcast. We discuss how to look at waiting in a new way, how waiting can positively impact our lives and the power of being present. It's also important to validate the difficulty that comes with waiting and the grief of not yet being completely fulfilled. Barb also shares practical ways to embrace the wait, whether that's through being in community or moving away from assumptions.

As you wait for that new job, physical healing, marriage or family reconciliation, my hope is that you'll begin to see waiting in a new way. Don't forget to tag us @biancaolthoff and @barbs_hill on social media, we'd love to find out what you've learned and believe with you in your wait.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Book - Seasons of Waiting: An Invitation to Hope

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 83: Stepping Into Leadership, Casting Vision, Being A Positive Influence and Defining The "IT" Factor with Craig Groeschel

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 20 Jun 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Leadership and influence are two words that are often tossed around in church culture. At times, it can be difficult to connect with these terms, particularly if you can't identify where you can lead or influence others in your life. But what if I told you that you were a leader and that you had your own sphere of influence?

Today I'm chatting with pastor, author, and world-class leader Pastor Craig Groeschel about those very things. In this episode, Pastor Craig shares his wisdom and helps us define the "IT" factor and what “IT” looks like, practically speaking. He talks about what healthy church leadership looks like from his own perspective as well as ways we can apply these insights to our own lives.

Leadership looks different for everyone, and we all have opportunities to influence others in our day-to-day living. Pastor Craig also talks about casting vision and why we should create a vision for every area of life. You can find out more in his new book “Lead Like It Matters”.

As you listen, I hope you can begin to identify your leadership capabilities and ways that you can be empowered to lead life well. I believe that YOU are an influencer! Share how you are influencing others in your daily walk and tag us on social media @BiancaOlthoff and @CraigGroeschel.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS

Books: Lead Like It Matters: 7 Leadership Principles for a Church That Lasts *Pre-order the book and get a free 8 Session Video bonus resource.

Winning The War In Your Mind: Change Your Thinking, Change Your Life

Dangerous Prayers: Because Following Jesus Was Never Meant To Be Safe

Hope In The Dark: Believing God Is Good When Life Is Not

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 82: Cultivating Long Lasting Friendships, Dealing With Conflict, Maintaining Close Bonds and How To Be A Good Friend with Jasmine, Brianna, Melanie and Bianca

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 13 Jun 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Do you want meaningful friendships? Have you struggled to meet new friends in your current season of life? How to MAKE and KEEP friends are what we are talking about on this episode! In this conversation, I’ll be talking about

· How to build friendships

· What are the ingredients for long-lasting relationships

· When should we let a relationship end

And who better to talk about this than with my closest friends, Jasmine Star, Brianna Glenn, and Melanie Nyema. I may describe ourselves as the Hot Mess Express, but we've maintained our bond for over two decades. It hasn't always been easy, but we have supported one another through many different seasons of life. We exchange stories, talk about our memories together and share the lessons we've learned from our friendship. My hope is that as you listen and walk away with practical knowledge that you can apply to your own friendships.

Whether you're dealing with friendship conflict, trying to make time for your friends or looking to build new, intentional friendships, there's something here for you. I'd love to see what your friendships look like and hear about what your friends mean to you. So, don't forget to tag me @biancaolthoff, I can't wait to learn about your nearest and dearest.

Thank you for being a friend to me! How about you show your friends some love and set some time aside to catch up and listen to this episode together.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS:

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 81: Embracing New Seasons, Making Changes, Identity and The Power Of Community with Shauna Niequist

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 06 Jun 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Friends, have you ever found yourself thinking "I guess I haven't learned that yet"? We can make plans and set goals but sometimes life happens, and we find ourselves in a situation we didn't see coming.

In today’s episode, I’m talking with writer and storyteller, Shauna Niequist. Throughout our conversation, you'll hear Shauna unpacked this very concept. She talks about the art of gathering around a table, moving her family to New York and mourning the identities that we outgrow.

Shauna also shares her perspective on rediscovery and embracing new seasons of life. There is power in putting down the ideas of how others perceive us and simply living as who we are truly meant to be.

Just like a lovingly home-cooked meal, Shauna has all the elements to truly satisfy your soul. We'd love to see you recreate the meal that Shauna shared in this episode! Don't forget to tag us @BiancaOlthoff and @sniequist.

If this podcast inspired you in some way, pass it on to a friend, because sharing is caring!

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS:

Shauna’s Book: I Guess I Haven't Learned That Yet: Discovering New Ways of Living When the Old Ways Stop Working

Shauna’s Hearty Italian Stew:

Ingredients

Onions

Shallots

Garlic

Carrots

Tomatoes

Fennel

Sausage

White beans

Spinach

Lots of Parmesan

Use a soup stock of your preference. Combine all ingredients. Add salt or Italian spices to taste.

SIDES:

Loaf of Sourdough Bread

Green Salad

Vinaigrette made with wine vinegar, apple cider vinegar or lemon juice

Drinks

Sparkling water

Red wine

Dessert

Blackberries

A couple of bars of dark chocolate broken up into pieces

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 80: Letting Grief Heal You, Mourning, Loss, Experiencing Shalom, and Uvalde with Bianca Juarez Olthoff

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 30 May 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Hi Friends! Oftentimes, grief is a process associated with major life-altering situations such as the death of a loved one or a traumatic experience. But there are also smaller instances where feelings of loss can occur, for example, losing a job or a friendship breakup. In today's episode I'm talking about ways we can deal with grief and loss.

As we settle into this conversation my heart and my hope is that you can begin to identify areas in your life where you may need to grieve. Or perhaps you've been in a season of loss, and you can find some healing from this conversation. So, whether you're accepting the loss of a dream, beginning a healing journey, or looking for a way to support a loved one through grief, this podcast is for you. As you listen, I hope you can find your shalom and allow God to heal your hurt. Don't forget to tag me @BiancaOlthoff to let me know what healing looks like for you.

Love you,

RESOURCES/LINKS:

https://www.nytimes.com/2021/04/22/well/what-happens-in-the-body-during-grief.html

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 79: Bamboozled By Jesus: Being Tricked into the Life of Your Dreams with Yvonne Orji

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 23 May 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Hi Friends! I hope you came ready to laugh! In today’s episode I chat with Yvonne Orji, an Emmy-nominated Nigerian American actress, writer and comedian. She entertains international audiences and is a sought-after speaker. Her TEDx talk; “The Wait Is Sexy,” has garnered over a million views.

In this episode, I get to ask Yvonne the perennial question: Does God have a sense of humor? I’m a firm believer that God not only has a sense of humor but has a great sense of humor. As someone who values humor, wit, and banter, I’ve come to see it reflected in Scripture from the One who created the world. Whether you believe in God or not, Jesus longs to have a relationship with you! So, I can’t imagine that if we, His most valuable creation, have wide varieties of humor that range through individual personalities, that the God of the universe, who created us in His image, does not have one.

I hope you enjoy listening to Yvonne as much as I enjoyed interviewing her. Do me a favor, take notes, laugh, and tag @YvonneOrji and I @BiancaOlthoff, on Instagram to win a copy of her fabulous book!

Love you,

RESOURCES: Yvonne Orji Book: Bamboozled By Jesus: How God Tricked Me into the Life of My Dreams

The wait is sexy | Yvonne Orji | TEDxWilmingtonSalon

Ep 78: When Life Lets You Down with Jordan Lee Dooley

info@accessmore.com — Mon, 16 May 2022 00:00:00 PDT

Hi Friends! We’ve all gone through hard seasons in life. And some of us have even been through a season wanting to fulfill a dream or get a promotion or the family that we’ve always wanted and then not being able to get what we want when it seems like we’re almost there.

In today’s episode, my guest Jordan Lee Dooley will be sharing with us some practical steps on how to navigate painful setbacks and hardships. Jordan shares how difficult experiences, waiting seasons, and our greatest disappointments can bring clarity to what we really want in life.

If you find yourself frustrated because you are not where you thought you should be in life, this episode is for you. Life is filled with unmet expectations, disrupted dreams, uncertainty, and in-between seasons. Lean in and listen to how Jordan’s experiences taught her to take a long pause, audit her life, and learn how to gain greater clarity about what she truly wanted, why she wanted it, and how to begin pursuing it.

Friend, if you are in a season of in-betweens, not-quites, and unknowns you are not alone. You belong to this community and we’re here for you. Let Jordan know how this episode has impacted you by tagging us @BiancaOlthoff and @JordanLeeDooley

Talk to you next week, friend!

Love you,

LINKS / RESOURCES:

Book - Embrace Your Almost

Safe Families for Children

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

Ep 77: Beyond the BossBabe: Music, Business, Infertility and the Weapon Behind Tasha Cobbs Leonard

info@accessmore.com — Sun, 08 May 2022 22:00:00 PDT

Hi Family! Welcome back to a new season of the podcast. On today’s episode we are kicking off season FIVE with the incomparable and uber talented Tasha Cobbs Leonard. I’m excited to jump into today’s interview and topic at hand.

I’m sure you’ve seen or heard the phrase BossBabe or GirlBoss. Women are using the tags on photos that demonstrate their professional or personal strength, fearlessness, successes, and ambition, and desire to lift up others in the process.

But something about those titles and ethos rubbed me the wrong way.

It seems that by having to identify ourselves as GIRLBOSS and shouting our girl-ness and boss-ness from the hashtag rooftops that we’re overcompensating for something – why not just show your success by being a good boss. Tasha could use the hashtag all day everyday of BossBabe, but instead she uses her entrepreneurial, pastoral, and creative prowess to SHOW not tell.

I can’t wait for you to get to know and love this beautiful and talented woman of God. Take notes and quotes and tag us @BiancaOlthoff and @TashaCobbsLeonard on social media so we can repost your learnings. I love when our guests know the impact they are having! I can't wait to see what you're learning and loving about this series.

Love you,

LINKS / RESOURCES:

TashaCobbsLeonard.com

Tasha and Kenneth Leonard - The Purpose Place Church

Music by: Brad Tsushima, Instagram: @bradtsushima, email: bradtsushima94@aol.com, Spotify: “R.A.D.”

It’s a vibe in season FIVE!

info@accessmore.com — Fri, 29 Apr 2022 22:00:00 PDT

Hey Family! We are heading into our FIFTH season of the podcast and all I can say is that It's Gonna Be A Vibe in Season Five!??

Thank you for spending time listening to this podcast and being part of this amazing community. My heart is not just to share information, but to cultivate a space for transformation. In order to do that, we gotta keep it real and talk about things that sometimes make us feel a little uncomfortable. As I like to say We're Going There!

This season is shaping up to be one of my favorites! Not only are we hosting amazing thinkers, creatives, and leaders but we'll also be tackling topics like new age, manifestation, coping with grief, living your life with purpose and balance, discovering your IT factor, how to bui lifelong friendships, and so much more.

I would love it if you left a kind review. When you do, take a screenshot, post it on social media and tag me @BiancaOlthoff. Also, subscribe to the podcast so you don't miss any of the episodes. This show is a labor of love and I'm honored to bring you content that is educational, motivational, and inspirational.

Love you, Fam!