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How to Deal with Family Tension at Holidays

11/22/2022 00:28:19
How to Deal with Family Tension at Holidays
In today's podcast, Quinn addresses how to reduce or prevent family tension at holiday gatherings. Because it's something that is normal for so many, but something so many don't know how to change.  

The point of this podcast is to help you work to make your holiday gatherings less stressful and more enjoyable and aligned with honoring God. In the episode, Quinn offers listeners 7 things to avoid which include: 

7 Don't to Prevent Family Tension:
  • Don't call someone out in front of the family.  
  • Don't wait to have a hard conversation at a family gathering. Save them for before or after. 
  • Do not over-drink or overindulge. 
  • Don't respect the host house. 
  • Don't be upset when someone sets a boundary. Respect it. 
  • Don't leave children unattended.  
  • Don't show favoritism toward grand kids.  
  • 4 Things to Prevent Tension as A Host 
  • As the host, tell people your schedule.  
  • If someone isn't responding, reach out to them and ask: 
  • What can I do to make you more comfortable?  
  • Create spaces of retreat. 
  • Offer fun activities for different types of people - the introverts and extroverts.  
  • 3 Things to Do to Avoid Stop Continued Hurt or Family Tension 
  • Set realistic expectations.  

If you need to communicate, figure out what needs to be said to make things the most ideal. Change the pattern. Change the system.  

Look for moments to connect instead of moments to criticize. And have fun! 

Scripture Renewal Tip:

Ephesians 5 

Mind Renewal Tip:

God loves families. He desires us to seek healthy relationships because it brings heaven to earth.

Renew You with Quinn Kelly

The RENEW YOU Podcast is created to be like a private therapy session for you to tackle your everyday stresses and struggles through a mix of Jesus + Therapy with licensed marriage and family therapist Quinn Kelly.

In each episode of this podcast Quinn tackles subjects like negative self-talk, perfectionism, battling off defensiveness in marriage, parenting or friendships to give you something to think about in a renewed way each week with relatable stories, practical tips and a non-intimidating style because Quinn may not be able to solve the world's problems, but she is passionate about helping you solve yours - making her ready to "Renew YOU." 


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Great podcast with relevant topics and practical action steps to follow, thank you.

I look forward to episodes

Great podcast with relevant topics and practical action steps to follow, thank you.