Today I'm joined by Michelle, who has been on a journey of saying no to passivity. Being the oldest child in the family, she has had a tendency to become more accommodating than she should. This pattern has followed her into her adulthood and developed into passivity. We talk about 3 important mindset shifts that have to happen in order to see assertiveness as the best way to take care of yourself and others. In order for relationships to be healthy, they have to be balanced! Assertiveness is an important people skill, and we talk through it on this episode of Talk To Me! Dig deeper by ordering my new book People Skills anywhere books are sold.
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Tim Tebow is back-and this time he's bringing full-on dad energy. Tim shares the surreal (and hilarious) realities of becoming a father to Daphne Raine, from driving home like a hyper-cautious grandpa to realizing how instantly responsibility rewires your whole brain. Along the way, Levi and Jennie soak up Tim's reflections on what fatherhood has already taught him about God's voice in chaos, and how love turns into action.
Then the conversation turns tender and powerful as Tim opens up about his new book If the Tree Could Speak-a poetic, perspective-shifting retelling of the gospel through the life of the tree that became the cross. From Easter tenderness to the brutal honesty of Calvary, this episode is a reminder that the cross changes everything-and that our calling is to live like we actually believe it.
Connect with us on social!
Tim: @timtebow
Levi: @levilusko
Jennie: @jennielusko
Fresh Life Church: @freshlife
[Links]
If the Tree Could Speak Book: https://bit.ly/4rqk0fE
Look Again Book: https://bit.ly/4aYrDEh
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Time Stamps
0:00:18 - Ketones, cold plunges, and dad-life banter
0:01:23 - Bringing Daphne home: joy, fear, and responsibility
0:06:05 - "Splash radius" and worship in the delivery room
0:20:45 - If the Tree Could Speak: the cross through the tree's eyes
0:40:13 - Grief with hope: "he's not lost-he's found"
0:43:12 - "Look Again": seeing people as infinitely valuable MVPs
Hello, friend! I sure hope you're doing well today!
Being a Promised Land person does not guarantee you a problem-free life. In fact, it guarantees the opposite. In John 16:33, Jesus says, "In this world, you will have trouble." Knowing that, what do you do? Follow the example of Caleb in Joshua, Chapter 14, and set your mind on a holy cause.
Hello, friend! I hope you're doing well.
In today's Encouraging Word, we're taking a look at the first appearance of grace in Scripture, and you might be surprised where it shows up. But the message is unchanged: grace is not up to the one receiving it. It's up to the One giving it.
Your life isn't meant to stagnate-it's meant to overflow with purpose, conviction, and the life of Christ. In this episode, host Christine Caine sits down with author and spiritual formation leader Ann Voskamp for a deeply moving conversation about living "given," guarding against spiritual drift, cultivating a heart of compassion, and staying anchored in Scripture in a distracted world. Ann shares her journey from global activism to deep soul formation-and why believers must reclaim intentional, Scripture-shaped living. If you're hungry to grow in spiritual depth and purpose, this episode will stir your heart.
SHOW NOTES:
A Friendship Formed in the Unexpected
Christine and Ann revisit their years at Wheaton, how two women from opposite ends of the world became spiritual sisters, and the shared passion for Jesus that bonded them instantly.
Seeing the Marginalized Through God's Eyes
Ann reflects on her first global trip to Guatemala City, experiencing the heartbreak of injustice, and discovering that gratitude must overflow into activism. Christine and Ann recall their shared work with A21 and the Roma community in Bulgaria.
The Call to Live "Given"
A powerful discussion on becoming a conduit, not a reservoir-why gifts from God are meant to flow through us, not be hoarded. They explore how generosity keeps the soul alive and how withholding can slowly deaden the heart.
Fighting Drift: One-Degree At a Time
Ann unpacks the danger of slow spiritual drift and why intentionality, Scripture saturation, and Christ-centered community are essential. Christine shares how many leaders fall not by sudden rebellion but by subtle neglect.
Formation for the Battle
Ann describes her doctoral work in spiritual formation and soul care, reframing spiritual disciplines as "means of the Spirit," not self-powered effort. They discuss how formation fuels mission-and why activists burn out without deep roots in Jesus.
Urgency, Eternity, and the Abundant Life Now
Christine and Ann discuss numbering our days, rejecting distraction culture, and embracing the abundant life Jesus offers today-not someday.
Find Ann on Instagram at @annvoskamp
Join our Circle of Friends this week as the ladies talk about sweet memories in unexpected places (and unusual things to mistake for hair dye!), how a single prayer turned into a Bible study community, the Scriptural basis for Point of Grace's new album "Lady Wisdom," and an old secret for making the perfect cup of coffee.
We want to hear your real stories of true friendship! Email us at pointofgracestories@gmail.com and you may even hear it on the podcast!
Timestamps:
1:33 What's Up: New Puppy Smells, Farmhouse Photoshoots, and Cemetery Celebrations
7:17 Circle of Friends: Taylor, Bible Studies, and Friendships That Bloom From a Single Prayer
16:10 What in the Word: Proverbs, Lady Wisdom (in a Muscle Tee), and (Not) Plagiarizing the Bible
24:39 Circle Up! Little Men, Needlepoint Neck Lights, and an Old Secret to Perfect Coffee
Tim Tebow is back-and this time he's bringing full-on dad energy. Tim shares the surreal (and hilarious) realities of becoming a father to Daphne Raine, from driving home like a hyper-cautious grandpa to realizing how instantly responsibility rewires your whole brain. Along the way, Levi and Jennie soak up Tim's reflections on what fatherhood has already taught him about God's voice in chaos, and how love turns into action.
Then the conversation turns tender and powerful as Tim opens up about his new book If the Tree Could Speak-a poetic, perspective-shifting retelling of the gospel through the life of the tree that became the cross. From Easter tenderness to the brutal honesty of Calvary, this episode is a reminder that the cross changes everything-and that our calling is to live like we actually believe it.
Connect with us on social!
Tim: @timtebow
Levi: @levilusko
Jennie: @jennielusko
Fresh Life Church: @freshlife
[Links]
If the Tree Could Speak Book: https://bit.ly/4rqk0fE
Look Again Book: https://bit.ly/4aYrDEh
Get the 5 Gallon Bucket: https://bit.ly/sdl4sHY
Get the Lusketeer Sticker: https://bit.ly/sdl4sHY
Subscribe for more exclusive content: https://levilusko.com/hitl-subscribe
Time Stamps
0:00:18 - Ketones, cold plunges, and dad-life banter
0:01:23 - Bringing Daphne home: joy, fear, and responsibility
0:06:05 - "Splash radius" and worship in the delivery room
0:20:45 - If the Tree Could Speak: the cross through the tree's eyes
0:40:13 - Grief with hope: "he's not lost-he's found"
0:43:12 - "Look Again": seeing people as infinitely valuable MVPs
On today's episode of Back Porch Theology, Lisa and Allison take us back into the book of Exodus, one of the most pivotal stories in the Old Testament. Together, they unpack themes of deliverance and bondage, spotlighting the courageous midwives Shiphrah and Puah, the dramatic plagues, and the awe-filled moment at Mount Sinai when God's glory descended in a cloud. Their conversation reminds us that the God who brought His people out of slavery is still bringing freedom and deliverance to His children today. So pull up a chair and join us on the porch!
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On today's episode of Back Porch Theology, Lisa and Allison continue their journey through Exodus in part two, diving into themes of leadership, Scripture, and the steady kindness of God's guidance, reminding us that God's faithfulness doesn't depend on our perfection but on His character. So pull up a chair, grab your coffee, and join us on the porch!
In today's episode of Back Porch Theology, Lisa & Allison explore the story of Abraham ~ an unlikely hero chosen by God in sheer grace. Together, they unpack God's sovereignty and grace in choosing, calling, and blessing people not because of their merit, but because of His faithfulness. So pull up a chair and join us on the porch!
Reed Arvin is a fascinating figure from the golden age of CCM, getting his start playing keys for Amy Grant and eventually becoming Rich Mullins' longtime producer. You want stories? Reed has stories...