For kids to be resilient, they need to know the God of the Bible. In today's conversation, you'll learn: 

3:20 What is resilience? 

4:50 Don’t just talk about resilience, this is how to live it out in front of your kids 

5:40 Your daughter blames her teacher for a bad grade, what do you say? 

8:20 What is the difference between a failure and a mistake?

12:45 When you zap your kids without even knowing it 

15:15 The powerful roles of optimism and pessimism

16:55 Use the calendar this way to help your kids recover

19:45 Big trauma versus little trauma 

22:30 Put your phone down and hear your child’s heart cry 

24:35 Technology has taught us that everything is easy 

26:46 Learning lessons from giraffes about over-parenting 

29:34 Fostering spiritual resiliency in your kids 

Dr. Kathy Koch is a child development specialist and founder of Celebrate Kids based in Fort Worth Texas. She has influenced thousands of parents, teachers and children in 30 countries through keynote messages and seminars. Her books include Screens and Teens, 8 Great Smarts and the topic of today's conversation, Resilient Kids.

Learn more about Dr. Kathy and her book Resilient Kids at Celebrate Kids celebratekids.com

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2:50 When her grandson met a lion  

4:50 When grandmas pray for their grandkids 

5:50 Living on the other side of the world with her kids 

7:30 Have you made your child an idol in your heart? 

9:50 From a young age, I learned what it means to stand in the victory of God 

11:30 I’m a natural born worrier…I needed to turn those worries into prayer 

12:50 Explain the armor of God to a child in this way 

14:45 Our marriage was almost shattered but God…

17:50 When you don’t want your story 

19:00 Importance of music in spiritual warfare

21:30 Be strong IN the Lord - it’s all about Jesus 

25:39 You can leave a legacy in your family

Judy Dunagan is an acquisitions editor for the women's Bible studies and books at Moody Publishers. A wonder seeker of God and His Word, Judy is passionate about discipleship and making God's Word and prayer come alive in everyday life. She is a speaker and Bible teacher and serves on the Board of Deeper Walk International, the ministry her father Mark Bubeck founded. Judy and her husband Rick live in Colorado. Together, they have two grown daughters and five grandkids.

Learn more about Judy Dunagan's book, The Loudest Roar: Living in the Unshakable Victory of Christ at judydunagan.com

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3:00 Will trouble bring you closer together in a marriage or tear you apart? 

4:00 This storm is terrible, but it would be even worse if it took our marriage away too

5:40 We all relate to God differently, here are different ways people worship 

7:10 When one spouse is up and one is down 

9:00 The fear of MS was even worse than the MS itself 

10:00 When you lose a child 

11:00 The second year of grieving is often worse than the first 

13:01 A new child means a new marriage, let me explain 

14:30 We are going to get closer to each other twenty years from now 

16:00 When you have a disabled child, how to nurture your other family members too 

18:00 How can you tell if you have the symptoms of over busyness 

22:50 Different drives and how to navigate that wisely 

25:20 Maybe is a very helpful word 

28:00 How to get closer to your spouse starting right away 

Gary Thomas has authored 20 books such as Sacred Marriage that have sold more than 2 million copies and been translated into more than a dozen languages. Gary enjoys running and has completed 14 marathons including the Boston marathon 3 times. He and his wife Lisa have been married 38 years and have three adult children and 2 grandchildren.

Learn more about Gary Thomas' newest book: Making Your Marriage a Fortress.

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3:45 Who was Charlotte Mason and why is she important in education? 

6:20 Children are not like a lump of clay that we form

8:00 What is the atmosphere of your home and how is that a tool of education? 

11:50 How tech can be used for good in education, to bring out beauty 

18:50 What is masterly inactivity? How can you train kids so you can trust them? 

21:00 Try this in Bible study to help your kids learn for themselves 

23:00 Creating a love of books in the home, how to choose a good book 

25:50 What might a day of Charlotte Mason education look like? 

28:50 When a homeschooling mom is exhausted 

Leah Boden is the author of Modern Miss Mason: Discover how Charlotte Mason’s revolutionary ideas on home education can change how you and your children learn and grow together. Leah is a wife and mother of four. She’s a longtime home educator with over 20 years of experience working with families within the church. She speaks, coaches, and runs workshops to share the beauty of a Charlotte Mason approach to childhood, motherhood, and education. She and her family live in England. 

Learn about Leah Boden's book, Modern Miss Mason at leahboden.com

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4:30 What he was actually asking was “Am I enough?” 

6:00 One minute that introduced me to my husband 

7:10 I was isolated as a mom and this invitation changed my life 

9:50 The value of touch between kids and parents 

12:45 You ran a half marathon…once. How did the power of encouragement get you through?  

14:30 How to notice those around you and their needs 

15:50 I wish my life was bigger…does my little life matter at all? 

20:30 Here’s how to have more purpose to our work 

23:30 We can start to compare our ministries instead of doing this 

Rachael Adams is the host of the popular The Love Offering podcast. She and her husband Bryan run a family business and farm in Kentucky with their two kids and two doodle dogs. 

Learn about her new book, A Little Goes a Long Way: 52 Days to a Significant Life at rachaelkadams.com

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3:10 This was the worst day…

4:00 Who is Zechariah in the Christmas story? 

5:15 I did my part God, but you didn’t do your part

7:00 Zechariah did his priestly duty even though he was sad 

9:30 Friend, God has heard your prayer 

13:00 Zechariah got a sign, probably not what he was expecting

16:00 Our limitations unleash God’s power. 

18:44 His name will be…

19:50 His story becomes a faith point for other people 

22:45 The approachability of Jesus and the holiness of God

Arlene Pellicane is the host of the Happy Home, speaker and author of books like Screen Kids, Parents Rising, and 31 Days to a Happy Husband. 

It's not too late to pick up a few family activities and family devotions from Arlene's free guide, The 25 Days of Christmas. Get it here today at happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe

Kids love animals right? So why not use a story about animals to bring Christmas alive to kids of all ages? 

One of my favorite AccessMore podcasts is Science and God with Dr. G. Today we have Mrs. G on the podcast! Laurel Guillen has written a new novel titled A Bellwether Christmas starring a spunky sheep named Bart. You'll find out about the real life Bart and the profound effect animals have had in her son's life. You won't want to miss the unique way the Guillen family opens their Christmas presents (it's an idea to copy for sure). 

In today's conversation about faith, family and Christmas, you'll learn about: 

3:08 Living with Bart the Sheep

4:30 Do sheep really know the voice of their shepherd? 

5:20 My sheep, the escape artist 

7:20 You adopted your son from a foster home…how did you help him catch up on reading? 

9:50 How to make the most of moving around a lot 

11:00 Try this on your next road trip 

12:46 How nature and animals had a major impact on my son 

17:00 A totally new way to give out your Christmas gifts 

20:00 The holiday decorations of Dr. G 

21:50 Falling in love with Italy and Francis of Assisi 

23:00 My first idea of a book never materialized…but it led to a Christmas novel 

25:00 How did you and your husband Dr. Michael Guillen meet and find Jesus at Cornell

29:00 How science led Dr. Guillen to God 

33:00 Here’s what I would tell a younger mom 

Laurel Guillen is a Cornell University graduate and former radio, newspaper, and television journalist who has always loved medieval tales. She helped her husband, Michael Guillen, PhD, produce the award-winning family movie Little Red Wagon. Her novel A Bellwether Christmas was inspired by a life-changing trip to Italy and years of caring for some remarkable farm animals.

Get a 15 percent discount on Laurel's book, A Bellwether Christmas, here: faithfultext.com

Learn more about Laurel here: fb.me/LaurelGblog

It's not too late to pick up a few family activities and family devotions from Arlene's free guide, The 25 Days of Christmas. Just subscribe here to get it today. happyhomeuniversity.com/subscribe

During today's 25 Days of Christmas conversation, you'll learn:

4:00 Why is multi-generational discipleship valuable?

6:50 Ask grandma or grandpa this question to get conversation going

8:40 How to help kids understand the different names of Jesus

10:55 Detecting challenges your kids face

12:25 Two roses, one thorn

15:00 What are some of your favorite Christmas traditions?

16:10 You were burned out with Christmas, what turned it around for you?

20:35 Writing a children’s book wasn’t easy…

22:20 Creative ways to read to your kids

24:20 How to say no to a Christmas activity invite

Asheritah Ciuciu is a writer, speaker, and founder of One Thing Alone Ministries. She grew up in Romania as a missionary kid and married her high school sweetheart. They have 3 children and live in Ohio. 

Find out about her new children's book Unwrapping the Names of Jesus at moodypublishers.com

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Instead of constantly fighting with your child, what if you could learn how to harness the superpower of having a strong will? Parent educator and coach Wendy Snyder has learned how to raise a strong willed child with integrity (and sanity!) based on her own experience. On today's episode, you'll hear: 

3:20 She came out of the womb strong willed!

5:20 If you describe your child as demanding, insistent, bossy, fixated, rebellious… 

7:30 These strong willed leaders helped me see my daughter differently 

8:20 Strong willed kids need to have their power bucket filled 

9:45 Do this to prevent power struggles 

11:20 When your kid wants to have a pop-up business 

13:50 Try this language when your child doesn’t do what they are supposed to do 

17:00 How do I break generational struggles? How can I stop yelling at my kids? 

20:30 Doing things differently than how I was brought up 

24:00 When you have a strong willed kid, the degree of difficulty is so much higher 

26:00 You’re living in this way that feels good - you’re making a positive change 

27:30 How is your strong willed child now that she’s a teenager? 

30:45 When your kids are hiding things…what if they are not trustworthy?

32:00 How has surfing helped you as a mom?

Wendy Snyder is the founder of Fresh Start Family offering online seminars, coaching, courses & a membership program to give parents the support and tools they need to raise their children. Wendy obtained her BS in Marketing from San Diego State University and Parenting Certification from the International Network for Children & Families. 

Check out her free online power struggles class at freshstartfamilyonline.com

Get Arlene's free monthly resource, The Gratitude Workout - 10 ways to build the muscle of thanksgiving in your child's life at happyhomeuniversity.com

The Happy Home is sponsored in part by Dwell Bible App. Save 30% off Dwell for Life at DwellApp.io/HappyHome.

No matter what the state of your union, there are things you can do and say to grow closer to one another. Longtime radio cohost of FamilyLife Today, Bob Lepine has a new book titled "Build a Stronger Marriage." On today's episode, we'll talk about: 

3:20 It’s my spouse that needs to change, not me

5:00 Finding a mentor couple

8:00 When you’re a morning person and you marry a night person 

11:30 What does this psalm of worship have to do with marriage? 

14:40 Four areas of the past that you must talk about 

16:30 Patterns and problems from your family of origin 

19:45 Hurts need to be addressed if we want to be healed 

21:05 How to interest your spouse in changing your marriage

22:55 What issues should you confront and what should you overlook? 

26:45 Four horsemen of marriage apocalypse

30:00 Try this to celebrate your spouse 

Bob Lepine serves as the teaching pastor at Redeemer Community Church in Little Rock Arkansas, and was the long time radio cohost of FamilyLife Today. Bob speaks at marriage and pastors events across the country. You can read Bob's blog here: redeemerlr.org

Learn about his new book, Build a Stronger Marriage - The Path to Oneness 

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2:30 How did you start working with Magnolia Network?

4:00 The day my husband unexpectedly quit his high paying job 

6:45 Listen to your spouse completely before reacting

9:00 Balancing a growing business and being a mom 

12:10 Why do moms need a creative outlet? What was yours? 

14:50 Being the hub house 

16:10 When your plans for your son’s college didn’t happen 

21:00 From a design perspective, here’s what is appropriate for kids

Jean Stoffer is the star of Magnolia Network’s show, The Established Home. This TV series follows Jean and her design work. Jean is an award winning Grand Rapids based interior designer and her new book is called “Establishing Home: Creating Space for a Beautiful Life with Family, Faith and Friends.” Joanna Gaines says this about the book: "Home is so much more than the sum of its parts, and this beautiful book will encourage you to keep pursuing that which fills the gaps.”

Learn more about Jean Stoffer and her book here stofferhome.com

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2:30 Meeting Jesus as a teenager

4:00 This Christian camp experience changed my life

6:00 Go on a walk - why is this transformational?

7:30 About the documentary Godspeed: The Pace of Being Known

9:10 What if our teens aren’t interested in spiritual things - how can we help them get more interested?

12:00 What is the biggest change you’ve seen in youth ministry since smartphones?

14:10 We imagine things all the time

16:50 When should my kid get a phone?

19:45 I know I’m a phone addict…

24:00 Personal life lessons from Dr. Gary Chapman

28:00 Who is Crash the Rhino?

Drew Hill is an award winning author and speaker. He serves as the head of school for the Covenant School in Greensboro, NC. He also works in the leadership of Young Life. He and his wife Natalie have five kids.

Learn more about Drew and his book, Alongside Jesus: Devotions for Teenagers alongsideresources.com

Watch the documentary Drew talked about: Godspeed, The Pace of Being Known

Get Arlene's free Gratitude Workout - 10 ways to build the muscle of thanksgiving in your child's life. Subscribe at happyhomeuniversity.com

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Arlene's pastor Jeff Brawner is here to bring family changing principles from the book of Proverbs that will get you parenting smart according to the Word of God. In this message recorded at Bonita Valley Community Church, you'll learn: 

5:00 What does the Bible mean by “train up a child”?

10:00 How long am I supposed to train my kids?

12:30 These boundaries aren’t bad, they save lives

14:30 Your child has been pre-packed by God

17:45 Boys learn in different ways than girls

20:00 There’s no one size fits all - God has never created a child without purpose.

23:00 How can you provide security for your kids?

23:45 Lessons from the biosphere

27:00 Trust God’s promises when you don’t understand the plan

29:00 Deep convictions will keep your kids from falling

Pastor Jeff Brawner is the senior pastor of Bonita Valley Community Church in San Diego, California. He and his wife have two adult children who are serving in ministry. Learn more at BonitaValley.com 

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You'll learn:  

3:40 Here’s the weird thing that happened to me in spin class

6:20 Providing stability to your kids 

7:25 We don’t live in a committed culture 

9:00 Think of commitment like this, not that 

11:40 I would be considerate to my spouse if he was considerate to me…

15:00 What’s one thing you could do for your spouse today? 

16:00 But my spouse is no longer novel or interesting…

18:00 My husband’s glucose kick

19:50 Create more wonder in your marriage like this (check out Bill Farrel’s interview in the archives) 

22:00 Advice for stepfamilies (check out past interviews with Ron Deal and/or Laura Petherbridge in the archives) 

24:00 Dropping off our oldest to college with tears

If you want to learn more, read Arlene's book 31 Days to a Happy Husband. 

You can also take the masterclass here: happyhomeuniversity.com/happyhusband

Arlene Pellicane is the host of the Happy Home podcast, speaker, and author of several books including Parents Rising and Screen Kids.

The Happy Home is sponsored in part by Talk About. Use Promo Code HAPPYHOME to get 1 month free at TalkAboutDiscipleship.com.

2:40 The importance of a dad’s words - the sentence that changed Dr. Meeker’s life 

4:20 What are the main differences between a dad and a mom? 

6:55 If you think it’s too late to build a strong relationship with your daughter, it’s not. Take ten minutes and do this…

8:10 Children get cues from parents - if mom or dad is upset or anxious, kids will be too 

10:40 What inspired you to write your book, Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters? 

12:10 What’s it like seeing your book made into a movie? 

14:20 Why did you include humility as a chapter in your book? How do dads show humility to daughters in a healthy way? 

15:50 Daughters crave for their dad to protect them (even if they say otherwise) 

18:10 Do this dad when your daughter comes home from a date 

20:40 Set the rules of dress and dating beforehand 

22:30 What differences are you seeing in your teen patients in the last five years because of technology? 

24:10 Why is social media so dangerous for girls?  

Dr. Meeker is a fellow of the American Academy of Pediatrics. She's written 7 books and a mother of four and grandmother of six. Her bestselling book Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters (which has sold more than half a million copies) has just been adapted into a movie on Pure Flix. 

Watch the movie Strong Fathers, Strong Daughters on Pure Flix 

Find out more about Dr. Meeker on her website meekerparenting.com

3:45 What can Alexander the Great teach us about culture today? What is vulture culture?

5:50 The urgency of parenting…we have limited time

7:10 This isn’t an easy fix

7:50 How can you test how much popular culture is influencing your child?

10:30 Disciplining younger kids looks like this

11:50 How can I get my 18 year old to obey house rules?

14:50 You don’t have to have a huge chunk of time to disciple

17:10 The difference between connecting with a moment and connecting with your child

19:40 Try these creative s'mores

21:30 What NOT to do with your kids

24:10 A different way to hold your kids accountable

26:55 How might a family start a discipleship plan at home?

28:45 Help for the single mom (or for the mom who is the only Christian in the home)

Guest Melissa Swain is the co-author of Write It On Their Hearts (authored with her late husband Chris). Melissa has spent nearly 23 years as a pastor’s wife and is a mom, homeschool teacher, writer, and editor.  

To learn more, go to Melissa's website writeitontheirhearts.com

Take the quiz, Is your child getting too much screen time? at happyhomeuniversity.com

3:50 How do you prepare to enter a new season with your kids? 

6:10 The gap between our six kids - one in drivers training and one in potty training at the same time 

7:30 Tight ring years - what does this mean? 

12:00 Arlene sending off her oldest to college 

13:10 How can we help prepare siblings for when their brother or sister leaves home? 

17:45 What if you’re worried that your child isn’t ready to launch? What if you’re almost relieved that he or she is leaving because they cause stress in the home?  

20:25 How did you cope with kids leaving home…stress knitting! It’s okay to grieve…

23:00 Finding a rhythm of rest - a quieting that you can create space for something new 

26:45 “I feel like the best years of my life are over….” - how do you reinvent yourself after the empty nest? 

30:45 How to parent your college child - what’s too much? What’s too little? 

32:20 How to keep your marriage interesting 

Marci Seither is the author of Empty Nest and a beautiful new devotional, Lakeside Retreat. She has been featured on Focus on the Family, Guideposts magazine, and in hundreds of articles. Find out more at MarciSeither.com

Get Arlene's book 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Wife at ArlenePellicane.com

2:30 Being on American Idol compared to becoming a father

4:30 Delivering the twins - we had huge complications

7:00 Needing a family miracle, blocking out fear, choosing faith

10:20 A funny place Arlene heard Colton’s song Miracles…

11:00 The story behind Colton’s new song, Build a Boat

12:50 If you’re going through a dry season as a family…

14:00 Highs and lows in Colton’s career, how can we help our kids with disappointment?

18:50 Colton’s confession about taping for a new show, LIVE + LOCAL on Pure Flix

20:45 Working with Dave Coulier, Uncle Joey from Full House

22:30 Teens expressing themselves through fashion - what’s okay? What’s too much?

24:30 What can we do as parents about music with bad lyrics?

28:00 My daughters Athens and Dior living up to their names

Colton Dixon has released three No1 albums and his music has been streamed more than 100 million times. He's been awarded 2 Dove Awards and KLOVE nominations. You can watch Colton guest star on the show LIVE + LOCAL, now streaming on Pure Flix.

Learn more about Colton Dixon on his website ColtonDixon.com

Find more about Arlene Pellicane's book and masterclass, Screen Kids happyhomeuniversity.com

3:00 Arlene's childhood bully at recess 

3:30 Myth #1: I am not beautiful. 

5:30 What you are going to say to yourself when you look in the mirror 

6:00 Findings from a study of girls about their ideas of beauty 

11:50 Social media is dangerous when we compare and despair 

13:50 Myth #2: I have a terrible body. 

16:00 Arlene's confession about stealing her son's cookies 

22:10 Myth #3: I don't have enough time. 

26:30 How to save time on social media 

27:50 Ask this question before you grab your phone, laptop, device 

31:00 It's not about time management, it's about energy management 

Learn more about GEMS Girls Clubs at gemsgc.org

Get Arlene's book, 31 Days to Becoming a Happy Mom arlenepellicane.com

2:30 How can we understand our boys better by using the Incredible Hulk? 

5:00 Teach these three R’s to your kids so they can regulate themselves, going from stressed to settled 

7:00 Work things out for yourself out loud so your child can hear how you manage stress and problems without angry outbursts 

9:10 Boys funnel emotions through anger; they are more physical than girls (hitting walls, biting, etc) 

11:00 How a walk, run, and movement can help your son regulate emotions 

13:30 How to respond according to research when your boy says, “But I want to play my video game, it helps me calm down.” 

15:00 Creating a top five list of regulation strategies 

17:20 Emotional vocabulary chart - how to get one for free 

19:45 The difference between saying “I am depressed” versus “I feel sad” 

22:30 Suicidal ideations - how can you tell if your child is serious? 

24:30 Adult men lead some of the scariest stats out there - including suicide 

27:50 Practice this exercise to put events in perspective (so they know losing homework isn’t the end of the world) 

David Thomas is the director of family counseling at Daystar Counseling in Nashville, TN and the coauthor of 10 books. He and his fellow counselor Sissy Goff co-host the podcast Raising Boys and Girls. David’s newest book is Raising Emotionally Strong Boys: Tools Your Son Can Build on for Life.  

Find out more about David Thomas and his book Raising Emotionally Strong Boys at RaisingBoysandGirls.com

Take the free quiz, "Is my child getting too much screen time?" at HappyHomeUniversity.com

2:50 What are you seeing repeated again and again in your counseling practice with girls? 

4:50 Letting go of performance based thinking 

6:30 When a boy asks your daughter for an inappropriate photo…do this

9:00 Talking with your daughter about wanting to be liked and the fear of losing friends (negative peer pressure)

11:30 What are red light, yellow light, green light friendships?    

13:10 My struggle with bulimia and what I learned 

16:30 The lost art of confession 

17:45 How can we encourage our girl who is scared to go to school, or scared to face a mean girl? 

19:30 Going on dates with your daughter, having intentional time 

23:00 What are some signs that my daughter needs extra help like counseling? 

Terra Mattson has 20 plus years of experience as a licensed professional counselor and marriage and family therapist. Terra and her husband Jeff founded Living Wholehearted, a counseling and organizational development firm helping people live and lead with integrity. Terra's book is Courageous: Raising Daughters Rooted in Grace. Learn more at her website. TerraMattson.com

Terra also has a video course, Helping Mom Raise Confident Daughters. Learn more here.

Is your child getting too much screen time? Take the free quiz at HappyHomeUniversity.com

3:00 How do you cope when your story is drastically different than you had hoped? 

5:00 Receiving the tragic news of her husband’s death 

7:30 Talking to kids about death with real words (not figures of speech)

10:00 How do you journey through your day with grief constantly showing up?   

13:00 How to know when you need to reach out to others for help 

17:20 The irony of her husband’s last book which was about the art of dying 

22:00 How do you still find comfort after the cards and flowers of consolation have ceased?

23:50 Talking about the deceased with your kids in a healthy way 

25:25 The heart compared to a classroom - a brilliant comparison 

27:00 Your husband died - this didn’t destroy your faith. It strengthened it. How did this happen? 

28:30 What happened to her wedding ring 

Clarissa Moll (MA, Trinity Evangelical Divinity School) is an author, a podcaster, and the young widow of author Rob Moll. Clarissa’s writing has appeared in Christianity Today, The Gospel Coalition, RELEVANT, Modern Loss, Grief Digest and more. Her husband’s first book, The Art of Dying, was released in April 2021 with Clarissa’s new afterword. Clarissa’s debut book is Beyond the Darkness: A Gentle Guide for Walking with Grief and Thriving After Loss. Learn more about Clarissa on her website ClarissaMoll.com

Get your free monthly resource for your home from Arlene at Happy Home University. HappyHomeUniversity.com

3:00 What is a rebel’s manifesto about? What does it look like to be a rebel today?  

4:30 How can you disagree with people and still like them?

7:41 What if your child has to do something immoral for a school assignment?  

9:52 About public education in California 

12:00 Take this advice about being involved in your child’s education 

13:14 How do you respond to statements like: Who are you to judge me? 

15:00 How do you respond to: You should not force your morals on me. 

16:30 What if you are called a hater if you believe in marriage between a man and woman?

17:00 What if your child is labeled a hater? 

20:00 What are unique challenges to Gen Z?  

23:30 What does research say about the power of parents to influence our kids? 

25:50 Tell me about Summit Ministries and why it’s so influential for teens

Sean McDowell is an author, speaker, and associate professor at Talbot School of Theology at Biola. He has two masters degrees and a PhD in apologetics and worldview studies. He’s authored or edited more than 18 books. He married his high school sweetheart Stephanie and they have three children. His newest book is A Rebel’s Manifesto. Learn more at his website SeanMcdowell.org

Want to learn more about Summit Ministries where Sean often speaks? Visit Summit.org

Spending too much time on screens this summer? My book Screen Kids co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman will help, along with the masterclass. Find out more at HappyHomeUniversity.com

2:30 Mother has had it! The birth of the digital detox

5:00 How do you present the digital detox to your kids? What does that talk sound like?

7:30 What are signs that your children need a detox from devices?

9:00 Mom, say this when your kids say I’m bored

12:00 The best part of the detox is noticing your child’s specific talents and interests

15:20 Do parents have to join the digital detox? If so, how?

17:30 Kids from foster care - adapting the digital detox for them

22:00 Here’s how you can continue the digital detox long term

25:20 You don’t have to be organized or a planner to do this digital detox because…

Molly DeFrank is the mama of the digital detox. She's a stay home mom and foster mom of six kids ages 12 and under. She's been a guest on Good Morning America and her new book is Digital Detox: The 2 week tech reset for kids. Find out more on Molly's website

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What are the 5 masculine instincts? This week's guest, pastor and author Chase Replogle is here to explain what these instincts are and how to leverage them for good. In today's conversation, we're talking about:

3:00 What can we learn from Shakespeare’s stages of a man?

4:25 Instincts - are they good or bad?

6:00 The example of Cain and the instinct of sarcasm

9:30 How can we nudge our son to care instead of check out?

10:30 A working definition of humility: self-suspicion

14:30 What is C.S. Lewis talking about in the Abolition of Man when he refers to chestless men?

18:30 How can we make church more attractive for men? For boys?

22:00 Hunting for turkeys!

25:00 Men need adventures, extremes of too much adventure or too little (apathy)

27:00 The call of God on Samson’s life - the need to watch our spiritual lives carefully

Chase Replogle is a pastor and author of the 5 Masculine Instincts. He’s pastored the Bent Oak Church in Springfield Missouri for 10 years. He is the host of the Pastor Writer podcast, a native of the Ozark woods, and he enjoys being outdoors with his wife and two kids. Find out more at pastorwriter.com.

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3:00 What is happening in a child’s brain when they see pornography? 

4:50 Can a brain reset back to a healthy level after porn use?  

5:20 Why is porn especially dangerous to tween and teens?  

7:10 How soon do you talk to your kids about this subject? 

10:20 From 2008-2011, exposure to kids under 13 rose from 14% to 49% 

13:00 What do studies show between the link between porn and sexual violence?  

15:00 How should you respond when you catch your child looking at pictures of naked people?

16:20 Did you know there is a link between porn and depression and anxiety?

18:00 The physical damages that happen to kids when they view porn 

21:50 How to best talk with your kids about porn in a way they will want to listen to you 

Today's guest Dr. John Foubert is a thought leader who has testified before Congress and has been called on by the White House and the Pentagon about how to end sexual violence. He’s been a guest on CNN and NPR and is cited regularly in papers like the NY Times, US News and World Report, and the Washington Post. Dr. Foubert's newest book is Protecting Your Children from Internet Pornography - understanding the science, risks, and ways to protect your kids. 

Learn more about Dr. John Foubert on his website. 

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5:00 How you can give girls a wider view of the world, a love for other nations  

7:10 How to encourage kids who follow God because they WANT to, not because they HAVE to 

9:00 What can a mom do to nudge a daughter to read God’s Word when she is not interested?  

10:50 How can a Bible reading plan be a game changer in your family?

12:00 How do you apply the “SOAP” method of studying the Bible? 

15:00 Let’s talk about the difference between reading the Bible in print or on the phone 

17:50 This is one of the biggest lies this generation of girls is hearing

23:00 How can church history help our kids to be bolder about their faith?  

26:00 Words of advice to moms who want to start a non-profit, ministry, or business 

Angela Perritt is the founder and director of LoveGodGreatly.com, a nonprofit online Bible study ministry reaching thousands of women in over 200 countries around the world with God's Word through their translated Bible studies. Angela and her husband live in Dallas with their three daughters. Today we talked about her Young Women Love God Greatly Bible (it's a BEAUTIFUL study Bible). Find it here: lovegodgreatly.com

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2:30 How they rushed into marriage - thanks to their moms 

4:00 Ashley: "I had no idea I married a gamer." 

5:50 What if dad is playing video games with the kids and mom is concerned about it? 

8:10 Wives, instead of nagging, do this...

11:55 How did you go from obsession to moderation when it comes to video games? 

14:35 Why did you move your family of five into an RV?  

16:30 Was it hard to sell all your things?  

17:50 How did your kids like living in the RV? What did they think about having just a few things each? 

19:00 After moving out of the RV, how did you keep the same close family vibe going?  

21:00 Why the Instagram name Arrows and Bow?  

22:00 Advice for the aspiring mom entrepreneur 

25:00 How do you complement each other in business and in life? 

25:50 Social media as a business, but not as something we want our kids on 

28:40 Our rhythms to keep social media in check 

Ashley and Dino Petrone have been married since 2006 and make their home in Florida with their four kids (baby added since the RV!). Ashley began her popular Instagram account @ArrowsandBow as a way to document her home-design journey. Dino is a senior engineer and Ashley is a full-time mom, blogger, and interior designer. Visit them online and check out their book Designed to Last at arrowsandbow.com.

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When we can bring our honest requests to God and surrender outcomes to Him - there is freedom and an open invitation for God to do His best work. In this special message in preparation for Mother's Day, Arlene looks at the life of Hannah in the Old Testament. What can we learn from her prayer of surrender? Arlene will talk about: 

2:00 When your child says, “Make me!” 

7:00 Living in a time of moral decay 

9:40 Showdown: Hannah versus Penninah 

11:45 Moms should neither boast too much about their kids nor belittle them 

15:00 When you feel like you’re not enough 

20:00 Hannah prays a prayer that changes everything 

23:00 When you weep before God, He will comfort you 

24:00 Did you know there’s a physical difference between the tears you cry when chopping onions and the tears you cry when you are sad? 

25:00 How to rejoice even before your prayer is answered

32:00 Trusting God while you are waiting for God to fulfill His promises to your family

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3:30 What does it mean to have a happy heart? 

4:20 Tricia's background starting out as a single mom, getting married, having 10 kids, foster care…

6:50 Don’t interrupt mama when she’s having her Jesus time (cause she needs that Jesus time!!!)

8:00 How to spend time with God when you’re raising young kids and life is crazy 

12:45 You don’t have to have the right response exactly when something happens. You can wait and respond later. 

13:45 Taking time for soul care - a few ideas to nourish and reset 

17:00 There’s nothing you can do to make God love you more (getting out of performance mode) 

19:50 Cooking for a BIG family and how to use the time in the kitchen creatively 

21:00 Reconciling the hurts of the past with a happy heart - dealing with father wounds 

26:30 Specific advice for single moms 

Tricia Goyer is a busy mom of ten, grandmother of many, and wife to John. A USA-Today bestselling author, she has published 75 books. Learn more about her newest book, Heart Happy .

3:30 Why most couples can’t talk about money

5:30 What to do when you’re not on the same page about money 

6:30 If you are having tension around money, it’s probably not about the money. It’s about how money makes you feel. 

9:20 What if one spouse is a saver and one is a spender? 

13:00 Talking through regrets over past purchases 

18:20 What if I want to be the boss over how my income is used (let’s do what I want to do!)? 

22:50 How to start having conversations about money when you want to talk but your spouse doesn’t

24:20 Shaunti’s funny money confession! 

30:00 Gut level fears being triggered by money - what’s the difference between men and women? 

Shaunti (and her husband Jeff) Feldhahn are bestselling authors, renowed social researchers, and popular speakers. Both with professional degrees from Harvard (where they met), their books have sold 3 million copies in 25 languages. Learn more about Shaunti at her website https://shaunti.com/

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3:00 What does “worldview” mean and is it even applicable to kids? 

5:50 How to start talking about creation and God with your young kids 

7:00 Your child can’t see God, so how do you answer questions about His existence? 

8:50 If you are a Bible believing Christian, you are now in the minority in America 

12:45 How can you recognize progressive Christianity? 

16:50 What are negative, subtle influences you must be aware of as a parent? 

18:10 What happens to a society when feelings become the ultimate guide? 

22:00 Here’s how to engage in the culture with courage and joy, not fear 

28:00 This is how you prepare your kids to stand in faith when they are in the minority 

31:00 How to respond when your teens say, “Oh, you’re old, you don’t get the culture” 

Natasha Crain is a speaker, author, podcaster and homeschooling mom of three. She is passionate about helping Christians think more clearly about holding to a biblical worldview in the midst of a secular society. Natasha holds an MBA in Marketing and Statistics from UCLA, a BA in Economics from USC, and a certificate in Christian Apologetics from Biola University. Learn more about her new book, Faithfully Different.  

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Today you will learn: 

5:30 The more is discovered in the universe, the more we see intelligent design

6:00 It’s okay to say, "I don’t know the answer to that. Let’s find out." 

7:00 Let's dismantle the wall between God and science 

9:45 Show your kids the James Webb telescope 

10:50 Why you must begin with Genesis 1:1 for children 

12:30 Valuing your children but not making them the center of the universe 

14:45 Putting down screens and getting outside instead 

18:00 How can we raise a worshipper? The power of a dad to influence his kids to follow Jesus 

21:00 Your heart can still burn for God in your 40s, 50s, 60s 

24:40 Prepare your kids for what the values they will learn in college so it will not rattle them to the core 

27:00 Worldview is set young - don’t wait - get your young kids in a worship environment

Learn more about Louie Giglio's new book, The Wonder of Creation

Need help with your child's media choices? Read Arlene's book co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, Screen Kids and visit Happy Home University to take the free quiz - Is my child getting too much screen time?

Today you're going to learn:

3:00 How old do kids need to be to understand Bible stories? 

7:00 Benefits of reading versus watching animation 

8:10 Book suggestions to read with your older kids

9:10 How do you raise a child who loves reading? 

12:20 The connection between what your child is watching and worldview 

17:00 The Bible and learning it for a lifetime 

19:00 How can we foster creativity in kids 

22:00 Advice for kids who are interested in being a voice actor 

Learn more about Mike Nawrocki's new book, The Bible for Me - Bible Stories and Prayers 

Need help with your child's media choices? Read Arlene's book co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, Screen Kids and visit Happy Home University to take the free quiz - Is my child getting too much screen time?  

By the end of this conversation, you'll understand: 

4:00 Physical and cognitive milestones for babies and toddlers 

6:05 What does the AAP recommend for screen time? Do babies acquire anything meaningful from screen time? 

8:00 “Kids need to engage the world in which they actually live.” - Dr. Dimitri Christakis 

9:00 Is video chatting for babies okay? 

13:30 Help for discerning what is quality programming 

15:30 Mister Rogers vs. Paw Patrol 

19:30 The dumber the toy, the smarter the child 

22:20 Will my child be at a disadvantage if he or she doesn’t play with a tablet? 

25:50 Ideas for working from home with littles (without help of devices for babysitting) 

30:00 The upside of old tech (hello DVD player!) 

Learn more from Arlene's book co-authored with Dr. Gary Chapman, Screen Kids.

Visit Happy Home University to take the quiz, "Does my child have too much screen time?"  

Learn more from the nonprofit Children and Screens (they offer free webinars for parents).

As a culture, we are getting good at shifting blame and defending ourselves instead of taking responsibility when we do something wrong. Dr. Jennifer Thomas has teamed up with Dr. Gary Chapman to develop the Five Apology Languages. How can you teach your kids how to apologize? You'll learn how to use apologies to repair your most important relationships. 

In today's interview with Dr. Jennifer Thomas, you'll understand:

4:30 What are people looking for in an apology?

5:27 What are the five apology languages?

10:30 Role play: how would I use these five apology languages if I wanted to apologize for yelling at my kids?

15:00 Might you have a problem with over-apologizing?

18:20 How do you help young kids learn how to apologize? What is better to say than “I’m sorry”?

20:00 How to help your kids save face during the apology

23:00 We live in a “sorry, not sorry” culture - how can we teach kids that apologies are important?

24:30 How do you know when to apologize by text or when to apologize face to face?

27:50 How can we reach out to our estranged family members? What if we are not sincerely sorry but we want to connect?

Psychologist Dr. Jennifer Thomas is a motivational speaker specializing in the five love languages and communication. Learn more about her book The Five Apology Languages (co-authored with Gary Chapman).

Interested in getting closer to your spouse this month? Take the 7 Day Romance Challenge, download it for free at HappyHomeUniversity.com

Find out more as Dr. Juli Slattery talks about her book, Finding the Hero in Your Husband.  

You'll hear: 

4:20 A challenge that all wives face 

5:20 What is the cycle of intimacy? And how do we get into that cycle? 

7:00 What is the cycle of self-protection?  

8:30 What if I don’t feel valued by my husband?  

11:30 How has submission been misapplied? What does Biblical submission look like?

15:20 Why is physical intimacy such a struggle for many marriages? 

22:15 But I want to be the boss of the relationship…  

Learn more about Dr. Juli Slattery and her book, Finding the Hero in Your Husband.

Interested in getting closer to your spouse this month? Take the 7 Day Romance Challenge, download it for free at HappyHomeUniversity.com

On the interview:

1:30 My husband never planned to be an astronaut...

5:00 Welcome to the Cosmodrone 

10:00 Countdown to space 

15:00 How to overcome that fear of losing your loved one 

18:00 Being the rookie mom - how to make new friends when you feel excluded 

22:00 An unusual and wonderful way to help single parents 

27:00 Keeping in touch when you’re physically separated (calls to the International Space Station) 

31:00 What have your kids picked up about faith and adventure?  

Learn more about Stacey Morgan and her book The Astronaut's Wife.

Interested in getting closer to your spouse this month (after all, he's probably not in space!)? Take the 7 Day Romance Challenge, download it for free at HappyHomeUniversity.com

Learn more about Dr. Chapman and his book Things I Wish I'd Known Before My Child Became a Teenager at his website, 5lovelanguages.com

And remember this month...Arlene's Screen Kids Masterclass is $125 off, just use the promo code RESTART22 at HappyHomeUniversity.com

3:30 Bonnie's birth to a mail order bride from Hong Kong and a bus boy in San Francisco's Chinatown

8:00 When I told my kids about my family secrets

10:30 My dad never came back

12:00 This journey was for me, going back to what the little girl went through

14:00 I chose the hardest story to tell my boys first

19:30 Panic attacks and faith

24:00 How do you explain PTSD to your spouse?

25:00 How to use ten minutes to lessen your anxiety

28:00 Meeting my dad again

Bonnie Gray is a soul care expert and host of a wellness podcast entitled Breathe: The Stress Less Podcast. Her latest and most personal book is Sweet Like Jasmine: Finding Identity in a Culture of Loneliness. 

And remember this month...Arlene's Screen Kids Masterclass is $125 off, just use the promo code RESTART22 at HappyHomeUniversity.com

As parents, we can easily slip into complaining or a martyr complex (look at me and all the sacrifices I have to make for these kids!!!). Talking to Mitch Albom about his daughter Chika really helps to put it all into perspective. In Mitch's book Finding Chika, you'll learn of his unusual journey to parenting - beginning with an orphanage in Haiti that would change his life forever.  

In today's conversation, you'll hear about:  

5:00 Taking Chika to Disneyland for the first time

8:00 How children are curious and full of wonder before given screens

11:30 The unexpected making of a family

14:00 How parenting enhances a marriage 

15:45 How to handle conflict in the marriage when your child is seriously ill

18:30 Everything you do is an example to your children

19:30. Carrying Chika when she could no longer walk

21:50. Morrie's profound sentence

24:30 Chika singing "I am a Child of God"

26:00 About the Stranger in the Lifeboat

29:30. Why did you take away this person God? Here's a better question to ask...

Mitch Albom has sold over 40 million copies of his books including the bestselling memoir of all time Tuesdays with Morrie. He and his wife Janine direct the Have Faith Orphanage in Haiti. His newest books (the subjects of our interview) are Finding Chika and The Stranger in the Lifeboat.  

And remember this month...

Arlene's Screen Kids Masterclass is $125 off, just use the promo code RESTART22. HappyHomeUniversity.com

In this conversation, you'll learn:  

4:00 How Gary came to know Christ 

7:00 Lesson from a childhood bully 

9:30 When Gary decided he would never become an alcoholic 

12:30 The good and bad of technology 

15:30 Getting married

18:00 The message from God that changed my marriage 

21:40 How Gary created the 5 Love Languages 

30:00 What loving a child is and isn't     

Learn more about Dr. Gary Chapman at 5lovelanguages.com. 

Learn more about Arlene's Happy Home University and Screen Kids at happyhomeuniversity.com

How can you enjoy more Christ this week and less crisis? Maybe you've tried doing a devotion but no one seemed to be listening. You're too busy planning the party to actually feel like celebrating anything. Bible teacher Melissa Spoelstra is here to connect the celebrations of the Old Testament to today, share ideas that will work in your home to mark the holiday in a spiritual and joyful way, and find some rest (even this busy week!).  

We'll talk about:

5:20 Moving from duty to delight 

8:20 Epic fail with family devotions.

9:50 How to get your high schoolers involved at Christmas

15:50 What are elements of Biblical celebration?

21:00 The value of Sabbath.

Learn more about Melissa Spoelstra and her Bible studies at melissaspoelstra.com

Learn more Arlene and her Happy Home University here: happyhomeuniversity.com

We are counting down to Christmas in festive fashion. Get your free 25 Days of Christmas guide with 10 devotions (for mom and for kids), 10 easy and fun family activities, and 5 ways to serve your community at AccessMore.com

Week 1 is all about PREPARATION. How can we prepare room for Christ in our hearts, in our calendars, in our homes?  

In Arlene's message today from Luke 2, we consider Mary and her many inconvenient moves. You know about her famous trip to Bethlehem to be counted in the census, but that's not the only time she had to travel under hard circumstances. No matter what your circumstance today, God can make a place of beauty and purpose. As you listen to today's podcast, you might just see yourself in Mary's story. 

You hear about it at school. You know mean kids have been weaponized with social media - able to spread rumors, snarky comments, inappropriate photos, and lies about your children with a swipe.

How can we help our children prepare to meet the bullies of life? How can we prevent our children from becoming the bully?

Dr. Brooks Gibbs is here to explain what bullying is and isn't, and to help your child become emotionally resilient.

How can you engage with your kids even when you don't feel like it? Arlene shares from the life of Gideon who actually has a very powerful parenting message for us today. You are a mighty warrior mom or dad. You'll be encouraged to step out as a leader today in your home.  

Learn how to freshen up your prayer life and watch how God will move mountains in your life and family. Learn more about Valerie Woerner and her new book, Pray Confidently and Consistently.  

Watch Arlene's documentary, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words

Learn more about Mark Gregston and his book, Grandparenting Teens. Watch Arlene's documentary, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words

What's the single most important thing you can do regarding screen time? Find out in this conversation about being wise in a digital world. Learn more about Jonathan McKee and his book, Parenting Generation Screen.  

Learn more about Amberly Neese and her Bible study, Common Ground: Loving Others Despite Our Differences. 

Learn more about Josh Glaser and his book, Treading Boldly Through a Pornographic World: A Field Guide for Parents.  

Learn more about Arlene's film, Screen Kids: In Their Own Words. happyhomeuniversity.com/film 

Our key word in June is RESILIENCE. 

We can encourage our kids to bounce back emotionally.  

Learn more about Dr. Gregory Jantz's newest book, The Anxiety Reset.